the silly games we play

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  1. Eris

    Eris Yes please

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    dating would be so much more easy if we didn't, ya know?

    what are some of your "dating tactics" to make your potential more interested? :hsugh:
     
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    Tactics? Act like a mature, responsible, and fun adult with self-confidence, self-control, and is a challenge (i.e., not predictable, boring, desperate.)

    Have self-respect. Always get something out of whatever you are doing. Be decisive. Be fair.

    Just be a fun person to be with. :)
     
  3. Eris

    Eris Yes please

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    I concur, but the child-like guys I seem to come across all like their little games.

    I swear I'm about to give up on guys my age and date strictly older :hs:
     
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    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    Another reality apparently
    age and maturity no longer have anything to do with each other in most circumstances. :dunno:
     
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    Agreed. I know guys much older than me who are complete idiots when it comes to dating/women.

    And I know guys who are younger and make me feel like an inconsiderant asshole.

    I think most guys are just really insecure and so they have to do something to compensate, but usually fail over time. If they would just learn to grow up, be an adult, and be themselves things would be much better.
     
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    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    To many people are afraid no one will like them if they just be themselves. We need to be putting xanax in the water or something :rofl:
     
  7. Eris

    Eris Yes please

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    In my experience the older guys I have known have been "game free" whereas the ones my age are all about it.

    But it's true age and maturity have nothing to do with eachother.
     
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    oc and you got a deal
     
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    That may be a good plan for friends, but it's a recipe for disaster in a relationship. Think about it: you are changing what attracted the woman in the first place. Why would you do that?
     
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    I don't have any tactics???

    I just act myself....which is kind of shy and akward. :rofl:

    I've been going out with my gf for 5 months now...and we've only gone on 1 actual "date" and that was 2 months after we were going out and it was my bday.

    Like I said...I just acted like myself and we ended up having a relationship without us ever going out on a "date" . We did stuff...but never actually dated. :dunno:
     

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