I know this has probably been done to death, and will continue to be done to death. But anyway, I never really got to participate in a discussion involving peoples' perspectives on "nice guys." Up front, I cannot read signs, and I was not made to do so. So basically I cannot tell what a woman thinks without her stating it out in the open. I have had so many women friends who tell me that certain women is attracted to me, like I can tell... I will not lie, simply stated I am a nice guy. I have no hidden goals and I am not a womanizer. I was raised by a Texan father and a Korean mother. Nothing crazy, just the good old southern gentleman taught to me by my father. The way my father treats my mother also has a huge effect on the way I treat women. Basically I respect all women until given a reason not to... I think all women deserve to be treated with vast amounts of respect and taken care of. Not to say that I do not think they cannot do things on their own or handle situations by themselves. Simply put, I think a woman has a lot of things coming to her seeing as she tends to deal with more BS than a man does. Now, on to what I want to know. Women, what is the deal with the decisions you make when it comes to choosing a nice guy? I know it is not all of the women in the world, but it seems to be a large majority that I know. Is it the age thing? The time in life where you are choosing the more "exciting" men, when I say exciting I am referring to my "bad boy" counterparts. Do I actually have to stoop to their level and be rude and make bad remarks/gestures to make an impression? What are women looking for? Not saying I will change my ways, just curious and what to see into a woman's psyche!