She thinks she's fat and ugly and tells me all the time. I totally disagree with her every time! I am quite frankly shocked by her insecurity over it sometimes. She thinks I'm not attracted to her and that I should be with a 'blonde' or tells me that I WANT a blonde. She says she can't be in a relationship where there is no attraction. What am I doing wrong? I think she's beautiful, smart and sexy. I can't tell her enough. We've been together for over a year and a half and all this insecurity on her part is starting to put a wedge in our relationship and I hate it. She says that she feels this way the strongest around me and has to 'compete' with other girls. I tell her she is seeing things. What do I need to do to get us back on the happy track and her to quit acting this way. We used to be happy and content, what happened? What can I do?