the friendzone

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  1. Tugga

    Tugga OT Supporter

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    How do you get past the friendzone, without fucking up your friendship if she isnt interested to take it to a differant level?
     
  2. skitcy

    skitcy uhm title! ok

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    wtf listen to yourself IF SHE ISN'T INTERESTED SHE ISN'T INTERESTED.
     
  3. alex__

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    yeah so true, if ur there, its damn near impossible to get out... and if u try anything, its almost guaranteed to fuck up the friendship...
    If you cant handle it i suggest you dont get too close in terms of friendship, coz it will be so much harder to accept the inevitable rejection.
     
  4. caesaar

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    trust me ,she is not intersted in :fawk:
     
  5. Bruticus

    Bruticus half dead OT Supporter

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    If it's a really good friendship, you letting her know you want to become more than friends shouldn't hurt it much. She either says yes or no, if its a no you'll be hurt, but you'll get over it and move on (hopefully). Shit should go back to being the same (as long as you can get over it) fairly fast, unless she easily freaks out...

    If she says yes, well, from there it can go really well or it can be totally fucked up and never ever the same again :)

    However getting out of the friend zone is pretty bloody hard.
     
  6. Abomb

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    the only way to get out of the friends zone is dont talk to her for like 6 months then come back lookin super hot and spitting mad confident game at her.

    edit: oh man, please dont ever "ask" a girl if she wants to be more than friends.
    you need to get a feel for the situation aka how she acts around you, body language, touching, words, etc.
     
  7. purplebeast

    purplebeast The depths of hell and endless torture await all h

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    I believe ur odds of hitting the lotto are better than getting out of the dreaded friend zone.
     
  8. RedVsBlue

    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    youo don't. And since you are trying to get her to do something, after you obviously state she doesnt...then why should she anyways?
     
  9. kronik85

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    i get out of the friendzone all the time... *shrug*
     
  10. Abomb

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    haha, maybe you were never in the "friend zone" to begin with and they secretly wanted to f00k your brains out the whole time ;)
     
  11. dubbsy

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    I think you guys are reading it wrong..

    read it as:
    How do you get past the friendzone to take it to a differant level without fucking up your friendship if I find out she isn't interested in taking it to that level..

    ie: Making a move, she freaks out, and the friendship all together is over; how to avoid that happening




    And when you find out the trick, let me know. :hsd:
     
  12. skitcy

    skitcy uhm title! ok

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    If you're worried about losing the friendship, you must allow the friendship to naturally turn into love.

    This takes ALOT of time and usually this is where you can find a soulmate.

    Basically when you begin to find yourselves doing more things alone together as friends you fall into love then you can bring it to a new level.

    If you try to push it too fast then it will fall apart and you'll lose the friendship, way to slow and you'll be friends forever.

    Friendzone is a toughie and I would only recommend trying to pass it if you believe they are a compatible soulmate.
     

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