The dynamics behind bad boy appeal.

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  1. RunItByME

    RunItByME New Member

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    It's commonly known, and has been for a good while, that women more often than not seems to be attracted to guys with either a shady behaviour, or a shady past. Personally, I wish to find out why, and I'd love for you to draw your own conclusions in order to help me on my quest for enlightenment. Especially women, I need ya'll to speak with an open mind on the matter.

    This isn't to help me out with women, I do perfectly fine - only thing is, it's a helluva a lot easier pinning the tail of the monkey by acting pretty much like an asshole - and I've not a fCukin' idea as to why that is. Women don't want some pathetic guy following them around, saying he'd do anything to be with her - 'cause that's exactly what it is > pathetic. Women doesn't want real romance and real devotion until the relationship is steady on its way. The initial attraction lies in the mysticisim! It must be a proven fact in someones doctrines, I just don't have the time to assemble evidence for this phenomena.

    But don't let yourselves be fooled - once you sex her up, best believe she'll make a 180 kickflip and flip your relation around to the extent where you wonder what type of vodoo-spell she used, not if, because by now it's obvious to the guy that black magic is at work. With some bad luck, the guy is by now somewhat already interested in the girl, and voila, you're the bitch. Avoid this at all costs! Maintain your mysticism, in some way - but do realize you can't act like the asshole which got you in bed with this woman in the first place, 'cause then hell breaks lose.

    Just my current thoughts, please, feedback THIS WAY.
     
  2. bandwagon

    bandwagon Copy/Paste

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    I'm not really sure what kind of a response you're looking for, but I don't think you understand things quite as well as you think.
     
  3. RunItByME

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    I'm speaking from experience so far, so if it's something I missed, or I'm wrong with my way of going about things; I must simply live in a twisted world. I simply want to know why someone behaving like an asshole would be more interesting in the eyes of a woman.
     
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    the behavior creates the perception of power, and power is always attractive. if i could show off my power in another way and still come across as a gentleman, i stand as good a shot as the bad boy. e.g. if i'm the only person with manners in a room full of tough guys (looks, physiques, etc equal), i'd think i had an advantage.

    http://thegodfathertrilogy.com/pkphotos/gfi1.jpg
     
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    Wait, so what is it you want out of this?
     
  7. You writing is very difficult to read. :eek3:
     
  8. Falconer

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    Girls date bad boys so they have someone to complain about after they break up. Duh :p
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Fuck if I know. I've never liked the bad boy.
     
  10. Coottie

    Coottie BOOMER......SOONER OT Supporter

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    oh the irony
     
  11. RunItByME

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    I had just woken up, for that I apoligize.
     
  12. Jimeigh

    Jimeigh Every rook and jay in the corvidae have been raven

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    it's a dominance thing, and almost like a guy's version of being "too hard to get." the girl will want to be the one who "figures you out" if you're mysterious. i say mysterious, not invisible. some people think that sitting in the corner not saying a word will make them seem mysterious. mysterious is quite different, when you're able to be somewhere completely out of your element and act like you belong there. people think, "what the fuck is this guy?" an example of this would perhaps be like when i went to an International House dance party and was one of maybe 3 white dudes there, but i wasnt dressed to "fit in." i got a lot of "so what brings you here" and danced a lot that night, because girls wanted to teach me.


    and as far as i can tell, girls who like guys who are malicious assholes have still not figured themselves out. since girls are often times confused as fuck about what they want, they'll gravitate towards the malicious pieces of shit who will have them, because it makes them feel stronger by association. that is, until the relationship comes to its inevitable end.

    an example of this would be this girl i know who is a tomboy and has dated few people in her life. along comes this tall guy who is a completely genuine asshole (he brags about how he makes fun of a burn victim to his face) and sweeps her off her feet, because he'll date her. in retrospect they're probably perfect for each other because they're both insecure enough to date each other. they still need to figure themselves out.
     
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    It doesn't really matter why, imo.

    I have my own theories of course.

    I can tell you from my personal experience that the more arrogant and self-centered I am, the more women respond to me.

    The worse I treat her, the better she treats me.

    The better I treat her, the more I get taken for granted.

    Fucked up, isn't it?
     
  14. Falconer

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    It could also mean she has daddy issues.
     
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    One of my exes used to tell me how arrogant and self-centered I was when she would get pissed. :squint:

    Funny how she could never quite break up with me...
     
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    Are women really THIS illogical and weak-minded?
     
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    excitement. they dont know how to entertain themselves, and look for exterior sources of drama.
     
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    gabacho numero uno New Member

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    that's lame.
     
  19. Yes sir. :rofl:
     
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    one word: drama
     
  21. Dr3w321

    Dr3w321 Sgt. Pepper's Lonely

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    I think generally this applies more to a younger crowd.

    I think nice people end up with nice people eventually. :dunno:
     
  22. gabacho numero uno

    gabacho numero uno New Member

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    speaking of 'bad boy' appeal, lol, check out my new default pic on my myspace page: http://www.myspace.com/soflo_gourmet

    I was trying to look like Dylan off the cover for "Infidels". :cool: :o
     
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    It's simple. Women want a challenge, and most guys aren't challenging in the slightest.

    Bad boys, however, are. Even though the challenge is negative, to many women it's still more appealing (and of course they think, subconciously, once I succeed in civilizing him he'll be the perfect man).
     
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    R KriLLz Uncomfortable in my own skin.

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    I've always thought that as well.

    It's like you can't have a good movie without good conflict.
     

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