SRS The Asylum Version: Getting married in under 2 months v. Ask me Anything

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  1. nbiggershaft

    nbiggershaft New Member

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    20, public relations, female

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    meant for real advice to give out if anyone wants any, been together 4 years through crazy, crazy shit
     
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    METALLlC BLUE New Member

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    Crazy shit?
     
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    How did you propose? Did she expect it? Both of those assume you did the asking in the traditional way, if not, how did yall decided to get married?




    Gawd, I am such a fucking girl about this stuff :mamoru:
     
  4. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    How long have you been dating?

    More questions to follow.
     
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    KSNIPPY As lost as i get i will find you

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    how did you meet?
     
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    Oh god.
     
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    Did you two sign a prenup? Do either of you have enough assets to need a prenup?

    Have you been living together? If so, how long?

    Why do you feel it's necessary to get married so young? (not bustin your stones, just wondering)
     
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    tqpolo ***** Platinum Member OT Supporter

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    She is young. Did she go through her wild stage and ready to settle down?
     
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    registeredPORK Happy Poo Poo

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    Why this girl?
     
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    Have you sat down and discussed items such as
    -finances (how $ will be divided, who's responsible for making sure bills are paid)
    -chores/who's responsible for what
    -handling emergencies (especially financial emergencies)
     
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    I did it the old fashioned way, asked her dad about it. Then suprised her on one knree.
     
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    4 years with a 9 month breakup early on
     
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    prenup, no, neither of us have any money

    we aren't currently living together but we did last summer

    I don't feel it's really that necessary, but we've been engaged for over a year and it seemed like a good time, when we knew our friends and family could make it.
     
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    nbiggershaft New Member

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    yeah I guess, she's finishing her junior year of college, she's had plenty of opportunity to go out do her thing
     
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    she's really good to me and I love her. I crossed that stage at some point of infatuation that seems like love when you are a kid into really knowing I love her. When you want to make her happy for her and not for you.
     
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    I'll do finances. We'll both be working. Other than that, no, we haven't really arranged anything, luckily we are both cheap and will probably both make alot of money.
     
  18. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Why don't you quote multiple posts in one post? :mamoru:
     
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    Why not wait until she's graduated from college and has a job? ... and then settle down?
     
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    Are you scared?
     
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    How large of a wedding?

    How much is the cost of this wedding?
     
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    is she physically attractive?
     
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    isn't big enough for the both of us
    Is she the kind of woman that lets you shit on her chest?
     
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    back for more,

    I don't know how to use them
     
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    frankly, she wanted to get married, and we've been engaged for a while. Plus it forces us to deal with the issue with confidence, knowing we are stuck together
     

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