Texting your ex

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  1. the_mavsman

    the_mavsman New Member

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    Is it a bad idea to text your ex merry christmas or happy new years with it coming up? We say we are still friends but we won't contact each other if the other don't initiate first most of the time. Just wondering if this is a good idea or not :mamoru:. Btw i think she has a new bf but i don't really care.
     
  2. antihero

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    What good could possibly come of it?
     
  3. dumb_end_user

    dumb_end_user Sad Gus

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    wat
     
  4. just_another_on

    just_another_on New Member

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    Signs of not being over said ex...
     
  5. the_mavsman

    the_mavsman New Member

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    this is a different ex btw from singapore girl :o.
     
  6. the_mavsman

    the_mavsman New Member

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    i hope singapore girl dies in a fire.
     
  7. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    :rofl: I love how there are all these threads about exs texting and then this one pops up. Fucking awesome.

    Don't do it.
     
  8. Sirian

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    If you want to text her you aren't over her. As long as you realize that, go for it.
     
  9. the_mavsman

    the_mavsman New Member

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    So basically you're saying you can't be friends with your ex?
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    If shes just a friend then why are you so worried about texting her?
     
  11. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Text her, don't text her, doesn't matter because nothing will come of it.
     
  12. themolsen

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    Yea man, the fact that you had to make a whole thread about this tells me there's something more to this. Why would you be worried about texting "merry christmas" to a friend if she was truly just a friend? Seems like you have some sort of hidden motivation behind this...
     
  13. jtrem

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    You want her attention, you want to see if she still cares about you....Who cares, she is not yours. DON'T TEXT HER
     
  14. peoplescar

    peoplescar Guest

    I told mine we can't talk anymore because its going to prolong the breakup process. she still texted me about what she was doing. going out etc. then she called me and i ignored, she got angrier and angrier about not loving her anymore. called me a bastard and a liar etc.

    bottom line..... don't fucking do it.
     
  15. Sirian

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    Do you honestly just want to be friends with her or do you still have a tiny bit of you that wants to be back with her? Be honest with yourself.

    If you honestly 100% have 0 feelings for her anymore and are not bothered by having a purely platonic friendship with her the rest of your life, then go for it.
     
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    i will say this:

    it can take years to get over someone... and only seconds for those feelings to come right back.
     
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    Fucking truth man.
     
  18. GammaRadiation

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    I dont second guess texting a friend something like merry christmas.

    Truth in your assertion of the truth.
     

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