Text Messaging "Guy Friends"....do you care?

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  1. Athlete218

    Athlete218 New Member

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    this does NOT bother me if it's here & there
    but my girl & i just broke up recently & she did it NON STOP

    we'd be out to dinner & she'd constantly check her phone for txts
    @ the movies..she'd check for txts
    went on little road trips, txting the WHOLE time
    just hanging out...etc. you get the picture.

    these are "guy friends" supposedly but they all wanted her & would buy her flowers etc..

    we broke up over a variety of things , but was i out of line by getting pissed about this...she seems to think i was.
     
  2. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    yes, you don't text message constantly when you are on a date even with a girl. I have lots of guy friends and don't think there is anything wrong with it, however this girl was crossing all the lines. Good for you for breaking up with her!
     
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    no my girl dumped me after texting this one dude NON STOP for like 2 weeks
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    did you start with like a calm discussion about it or did you go straight to being pissed off about it?
     
  5. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    I would not put up with it. My gf gets texts but it's not random bs. Her best friends are a couple and I don't mind her texting the guy, but other guys who want to get with her, hell no. She was being inconsiderate to your feelings, but getting pissed off isn't the best response as she ends up getting attention from all fronts. I would've just laughed it off like those guys were meaningless compared to you, and if worse comes to worse start talking to waitresses or just anybody else around.
     
  7. D-FENS

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    No good. A few texts a day is fine, but nobody has full-on texting "sessions" with anybody they're not fucking/planning on fucking.
     
  8. 04JETTA

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    It drives me crazy actually
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Yeah, you did the right thing breaking up with her :bigthumb:
     
  10. ChipOnShoulder

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    that'd be annoying as fuck, glad you dumped her.
     
  11. JamesL

    JamesL wat

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    Is this the hot NBA dancer girl that wouldn't sleep with you again for 6 months?
     
  12. Athlete218

    Athlete218 New Member

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    yep
     
  13. kiri

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    i text my guy friends and my bf doesn't care. then again i would never do it constantly or while we're hanging out. that's just rude.
     
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    Only if she does it to the exclusion of us talking or hanging out, then you know she'd rather click clack away on her phone then hang with you.
     
  16. JohnJohnJohnson

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    :rolleyes:

    maybe this girl will apologize profusely, change her behavior 180 degrees, and buy the OP a surround sound system.
     
  17. saosko

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    In the beginning of relationships it bothers me, but once we're in the 'comfortable stage' i don't really care. unless it's non stop, doesn't matter if it's a guy or girl.
     
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  19. Deepsouthwrx

    Deepsouthwrx If in doubt, flat out!

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    yea my gf did this with her "guy friends" before she broke up with me, and god forbid I ask who she was talking to, that pissed her off too.
     
  20. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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  21. quamen

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    i think that is very rude and i would address the issue right away. In this world everyone is so busy, and when couples have time to get together, why should one move their attention from each other to a cell phone?
     
  22. wolfskymoon

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    People who text in general turn me off. There are obvious reasons why but I wouldn't go into detail. The only time i text someone is either when it's an emergency or I feel like saying something completely random and stupid.
     
  23. kiri

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    wow, inappropriate.
     
  24. Nomad

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    wow...that's fucked up for both parties, mostly for her to allow that sort of shit to go on

    i would never be friends with a guy like that, nor date a girl that felt that was appropriate behaviour
     
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  25. JamesL

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    No offense, but your gf sounds like a slut.

    And I know that term gets thrown around a lot on OT. And lots of people here make generalizations that "all girls are sluts", etc... but seriously, your gf sounds like she baiting these guys for attention, and she is doing it in a severely inappropriate manner for someone who is in a committed relationship. I would be waking her ass up asking wtf is wrong with her right now if I were you. Or packing your shit and leaving...
     

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