I've been with my SO for almost a year now and we've been through a lot together. We're close and both care for each other. We have definitely had plenty of problems (mostly her)...she has had a lying problem in the past that i finally got her help for, got her on meds, etc. A lot of her problems stem from her parents being unbelievably controlling. She is 22 and lives at home still. She's working, making pretty good money, but her parents do not allow her to do anything because of things that she has done in the past, and just because they are generally crazy. Overly so. Anyway, last night there was a huge a blowup...because apparently her parents said that she wasnt allowed to talk to me for a month. Because she was trying to get better with her meds and stuff, and I was nothing but bad news. (In reality, i have been a savior to this girl and have helped her every step of the way, because she has potential to be the sweetest girl in the entire world...and she is, but she has a small problem that she must get over first...and she's getting there. She talked to me behind their backs for that month, they found out...freaked out on her, freaked out on me and put me down anyway they thought that they could...her mother acts like she is 14. There was basically a blow up. Today they give her an ultimatum. Leave their house without being allowed to return, without being allowed to spend holidays with her family, telling her they'll make sure the rest of their family looks down on her, etc. Or she can stay, and never talk to me again...cut off complete communication with me(I have never done a thing wrong that would incite this.) So basically, this is the situation she is in. Any suggestions on how to handle this?