I had a friend come out to me a while ago. It was kind of sad actually...he got drunk, said he was gay, but then as he started to sober up, he started to backtrack...anyway, I digress... At one point in his homosexual denial backtracking, he said, "But I don't want to take it in the butt or put it in another guy's butt or anything, so I don't think I'm gay." Okay, I realize that being gay is not about specific sexual activities, but I'm curious, in reality, how many gay men want no part of anal? Giving or receiving. While it's theoretically possible, I'd like to know if there's any serious contingent of gay men, whom other gay men see as being genuinely gay, that do not engage in hot, manonman buttsex.