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  1. thepornokid

    thepornokid New Member

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    when i talk to my gf on the phone we never end up with much to say past the how wus ur day, whats up and small talk like that. any ideas as our phone calls, although we love each other dearly, are somewhat silent.
     
  2. shlibar

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    sounds to me like you 2 are just calling each other because its what usually goes on in a relationship. don't call her unless you got something to talk about
     
  3. Gonrad

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    :rofl:

    My ex-gf and I pretty much had the same kinda conversation every night. Rarely did we have any actual conversation.:

    Me: How was your day?
    Her: Good, yours?
    Me: Meh, little stressful, but it was ok
    Her: Hrm.
    Me: So what else?
    Her: I dunno...
    Me: Hrm

    I soon realized talking on the phone was fun early on but once you get farther into the relationship, there just isn't much to talk about.

    And when you are a career pesrson and you spend all day at work, there really isn't much happening in your life that particular day.

    It's like you wake up, go to work, come back in the evening. Chill a bit, eat and then on the phone with the g/f, knowing full well there is no point to even talk because there isn't anything to talk about.
     
  4. SugarKill

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    some people just aren't good conversationalists, but of course that doesn't mean you don't love them, i know by experience. just bring up topics that you know the other person is interested in and see where that goes, if that doesn't work sometimes just coming to them with a funny story about something odd that happened in your day will make them laugh and open up more topics for discussion. but yeah, you do seem to run out of things to talk about as relationships age, there's hope though.
     
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    it's not always easy, you can't be expected to always have something to say to your so. Hell when you're right next to them watching TV, you aren't always talking. Sometimes your so will call you and let it be silent just for the comfort of your breathing or knowing you're on the other side, especially in long distance relationships.
     
  6. Original

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    I'm going on 5 months in my long distance relationship.. we still find things to talk about and they usually end up lasting 3 hours just because we love hearing each other's voices.. but everyday there is less and less to talk about.

    Best thing you can do is make money.. and have fun indulging with it. If you want more to talk about, you need more excitement in your life. Get out and do more things!
     
  7. IgnitionGSR

    IgnitionGSR OT Abuser

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    me and my ex would talk on the phone once a day and would just sit there for hours not saying shit, she was so boring to talk to omg.. thats like one thing i dont miss about her.
     

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