Well I'm 21 years old and not very good with the ladies. I'm going to her house and have a reason to think she wants to fuck. She's a couple of years older. I have no clue on what to do... Will she be able to tell if I'm not experienced? I'm very nervous about telling her before hand. Don't know how she will react... Fuck I might just tell her that I'm not very experienced. One other thing she's married... But she's already messed around so I'm not too worried about that. 2-9-06 UPDATE: Well, I went over there and we chilled and watched the game over there (boring ass game). Nothing happened so it's all good. Her husband knew I was coming. She told him and he said it was ok. (I did crash on her couch) BREAKING NEWS: I talked to her today and her husband found out about her dude on the side. Well, needless to say he is threatening a divorce and threatening to take her kids away... So I'm fucking glad I didn't get in the middle of all that shit. Thanks for the advice guys!! I could have lost my life/ job!!! All my friends were saying go for it, but you guys changed my mind.