I always try to keep my threads short and simple but that never really works out.. This girl I sorta of like is in a relationship with another guy but we have been talking and flirting quite a bit lately. She dated one of my friends (also a coworker) for 2 years previous to the relationship she is currently in. At a party a few weeks ago her and I ended up getting drunk, locking ourselves in a bedroom and making out a few times. She wanted things to stop because of the relationship she is in which I completely understand. I'm not the kind of guy who condones cheating so I wouldn't want to put her in that position. To be honest I didn't know she was in a relationship with the guy at the time or I wouldn't have done anything.. I thought they were just "talking". Fast forward to recent time.. We've been texting each other off and on flirting quite a bit.. I went to her high school graduation (She's 18 on Saturday and I'm 20) and today we played tennis for a little bit. She rags on her boyfriend a lot while we're texting but in person she doesn't show many signs beyond just being friends. I told her if she hadn't asked me to stop that night I would have ended up sleeping with her but that I wasn't really interested in a relationship with her since she dated my friend. The guy she used to date (my friend/coworker) is someone we love to piss off at work (he's really easy to get a rise out of so we mess with him a lot). One of my other coworkers was talking to him one night and was like "Hey dude I think Adam (me) fucked Danielle (her).. What are you going to do" (He said this just trying to get a rise out of the guy even though it wasn't true) and the guy just said "Why would I care we're not dating". I have a feeling he just shrugged it off but that those weren't his true feelings. I could see myself dating this girl but I would still feel uneasy around my friend at work. I'm not really close with him but I do work with him so that's kind of important to me. Vag's thoughts?