taking my game to the next level

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  1. filho do deus

    filho do deus New Member

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    I am confident, I'm an extrovert and have a very fun personality, I can approach women most places without fear of rejection. Once I begin talking, and if allowed to (setting, warmness received, etc) I can lead an engaging conversation, make clever and topical jokes that insights laughter and makes the target more comfortable in my presence. I am somewhat good looking, and I often pull girls out of my 'league'.


    Where do I go from here? How do I increase my chances at success (success is defined as sex)?
     
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  2. ChipOnShoulder

    ChipOnShoulder New Member

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    Make lots of money, have lots of quality friends, and play the numbers game.

    Also, all this talk about how awesome you are leads me to one conclusion: you're lying. Are you truly fearless? Absolutely un-afraid of rejection of any sort? If so, asking us for help is stupid. Go out to the busiest bar and get to work.
     
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    filho do deus New Member

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    I get rejected all the time :dunno: Sometimes upwards of 20 times in a night :dunno:
     
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    saosko OT Supporter

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    Stop trying so hard. What are your stats? post pics of you/your clothes so we can evaluate.
     
  5. Cobra Commander

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    It's all in the approach. If they SEE you talking to every girl then why the fuck would they be interested?

    Jesus dude maybe you should meet some chicks in the park or something.

    "You can take a chic out of the club but you'll never take the club out of the chic"
     
  6. Viper

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    You could work on becoming more authentic and analyzing your beliefs about yourself.

    Are there any girls who are really "out of your league"? There shouldn't be.

    That kind of stuff.
     
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    That's good. So you're no longer afraid of rejection, that's a great start.

    However, once you no longer fear rejection, do you really need to go about getting rejected 20 times a night? I don't know about you, but I prefer to keep a high batting average in regards to dating. Not much of a fan of one night stands.

    Like other posters have noted, you might want to re-evaluate your goals in regards to women and relationship. If you want to continue pursuing pointless pussy, then going to a bar and getting rejected more than a dozen times is cool.

    However, if you were looking to have a fulfilling relationship with a woman, then maybe you need to develop more than pick up skills. Having pick up skills is always a good thing though.

    When you say you want to up your "game", what do you want? Better quality women? More women? Or do you want better quality relationships?
     
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    Yea this is a great line, because every girl who goes to the club is a bar slut. :ugh:
     
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    show me one that is not a bar slut :ugh:
     
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    i agree with you. but, you should be used to responses like that in here.

    i dont know how many times i see moronic statements like "if you want a quality girl stay away from clubs".

    bc only sluts go to club/bars.... not every day people like myself :hsugh:
     
  11. Viper

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    But on the flip side, there's a reason why generalizations like that exists. :dunno:

    The odds of finding a slut is MUCH MUCH greater in a bar than it is, say, at a soup kitchen.

    And, in a numbers game (that is, dating), you want to put yourself in a place where the odds are in your favor for what you WANT.

    (Bear in mind that there is nothing wrong with being a "slut" or fucking a slut if that is what you WANT)
     
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    :rofl:
     
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    those same "sluts" go to coffee shops, parks, and libraries.
     
  14. Viper

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    Numbers game, odds, statistics.

    Bury these words in your mind my friend.

    We're not talking "either/or", we're talking places where certain types of people are MOST LIKELY to go. :dunno:

    Don't know how to make it any clearer than that.

    And keep in mind, there's nothing wrong with those type of people. It's all about what you value in a hookup/relationship, in a person, and what you want out of a relationship/hookup.
     
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    that's where i disagree w. you.

    you dont have to try harder to make me understand it. i know exactly what you are saying.

    i speak from my own experience. im a club/bar rat. i go to clubs/bars Wed-Sa.
    so do a solid amount of people i know. we hang out in ybor which has a bad rep. none of my friends are "sluts".

    and yes, i do agree w. you that there is nothing wrong w. being a slut.
     
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    So sex is all you want? One night stands or the thrill of the chase?
     
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    so if you

    a. can engage with girls

    and

    b. can "get" these girls

    and you want to get to

    d. have sex with these girls

    then you need

    c. to get these that you can "get" home with you
     
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    :bowrofl: I see what you did there...
     
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    QFT
     
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    We all know that all the hotties chill at the soup kitchen! :mamoru:
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    You have to buy the expansion. It raises the level cap. Then you can level your skills up to 425, which unlocks the "pimp hand" ability.
     
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    :rofl:

    Don't forget to buy your epic mount!
     
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    jesus wow talk
     
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    Just because a handful of people you know aren't sluts, doesn't make what I said any less true.

    If someone came up to me and gave me a choice....

    And they said, "James, I'm going to give you two choices of social venues within which you can search for a long term relationship. You have to pick only one. You can either go to the bar or you can volunteer at the Y."

    Wanna bet which one I'd choose? You bet your ass I'd choose the Y. Because it's far more likely that I"m going to find women congruent with the lifestyle I live at the Y than I ever would at a bar. Not saying it's not possible, but, like I said, in a numbers game, I wanna go with the option that's going to put me in front of the most viable options.

    Now, if someone made me pick one for which to choose women to get my dick wet? Absolutely I'm going to choose the bar. Again, numbers game.

    :rofl:
     

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