FRK taking a girls virginity..

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  1. bait

    bait New Member

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    nothing kinky here guys.. but the vag is just so damn filled with idiots. I'm just concerned with the fact that my girl is REALLY tight (whenever I try to get one finger in she says it hurts) and the mess. Is there anything I can do to make it not hurt her as much, and will there be alot of blood? Any reccomendations on what to do to make cleanup (if neccessary?) easier?
     
  2. awsangel1

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    this is kinda gross, but you should try to loosen her up as much as you can without hurting her...it will take a while...also try using lube...it helps...ask her to take 2 IB profin like an hour before hand so it wont hurt as much....and use a towel in case she bleeds.
     
  3. Cherryfire

    Cherryfire "If we believe obsurdities, we shall commit atroci

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    What the...NO! lol. What exactly where you suggesting he do? Fist her? Give her time. Thats all you can do. And in the meantime, the only suggestion i agree with from this person is using plenty of lube during sex to make things easier for her. Go slowly and pay attention to her body language. A LOT of foreplay is really helpful as it helps her body to open up more and become more receptive to a penis entering her.
     
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    mkevaldz New Member

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    I dunno, that fisting idea looked to be on the right track =P

    Best advice I can give is to remember the moral of the tortice and the hair story, Slow and steady with a bottle of ky and explosive carrot wins the race!
     
  5. ~S~

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    Thanks bro, we try to help you over ther and you're getting the same answers here.

    Take it easy and foreplay will help you. After that, if she still ain't wet, use some water based lube. Some girls are alergic to some lube, so the water based one is the best to go with... unless she's allergic to water, which I doubt.

    After that, slide it in gently. Don't force it it because the pain will be too much for her. She will wince in pain and become tense, thus causing her muscles to contract and it will be even tighter.

    Stick the tip in (cuz she can't be THAT tight) and then slowly "rock" yourself into her. Push a little and do it gently. Relax and let her take it in. Then repeat the process. Push a little more, maybe half an inch or inch at a time and it should go in eventually.

    WIll she bleed? Possibly. If she's as tight as you say she is, I think so. You're spreading apart her flesh in there and stretching it like crazy. It's gonna hurt her like a MOFO, but she needs to get used to it.
     
  6. Cherryfire

    Cherryfire "If we believe obsurdities, we shall commit atroci

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    Good advice with the "rocking it in" comment. That works really well.
     
  7. raded

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    good suggestions here already. also, you're going to need to be patient.
     
  8. sushibug

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    took three hours of her crying to get completely in. the first two hours was like only an inch in too.
     
  9. Fenster

    Fenster no av no care

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    I guess this might be the problem already, its her first time.
    You say it hurts when you try to get a finger in.
    What if she tries it herself? Either when you're there with her or when she's alone.
    I mean i know girls can be pretty tight, but a finger shouldnt really be a problem (correct me if im wrong)
     
  10. TheMustafa

    TheMustafa hook 'em

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  11. ~S~

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    Back when my girl was a virgin, one finger would hurt her as well. I don't wanna say it's normal... perhaps commen in some virgins?

    I dunno.... Took us 3 different tries to finnaly get it in there, with the last try taking the better part of an hour.... hey, 3rd time's a charm :bigthumb:
     
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    it sounds more like she isnt relaxed and is nervous.
     
  13. I was really fucking tight my first time and I think it took us like 3 nights of trying for 1/2 hour to get it in. I would say don't try for too long because she'll get sore. Also, she's more likely to bleed if you try again before the tissue has healed up.
     
  14. acedanger

    acedanger I'm a lover, and I'm a sinner

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    everything here is great, one thing i found that works, try watching some porn with her, softcore if she isnt into the hardcore. The more turned on she is the more receptive she will be, that and 4play, just give her time
     
  15. FrigginAnT

    FrigginAnT Humanity is like a train wreck....its fun to watch

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    wow...you really wanna make this chick never wanna screw ever again dont ya?
     
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    Scottwax Making detailing great again! Moderator

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    That is what it sounds like to me too. I've devirginized two girls and neither was so tight a single finger was painful. Of course, I guess since cocks come in all sizes, so do vaginas.
     
  17. Cherryfire

    Cherryfire "If we believe obsurdities, we shall commit atroci

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    What the hell! It should never hurt like that..for so long. Too late now..but the next girls virginity you take, do her a favor and make it an event she'll actually remember with fondness..not with tears and cringing.
     
  18. djnick

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    where ever u do it, make sure u have cleanup stuff around incase she bleeds. She will prolly get sore the day after and not wanna fuck anymore
     
  19. 12xalt

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    okay, I'm a little confused as to how everyone is getting that awsangel1 has said something wrong

    uhm, the loosening up thing and taking time, how do you all get the idea that that means fisting? sounds to me like he/she means fingering with lube during foreplay


    as for the extreme tightness, has this girl not been in for any type of check up with a gyno yet? if not, I'd suggest she does this before loosing her virginity and that she talks to the doc or midwife/nurse about her tightness
     
  20. Cherryfire

    Cherryfire "If we believe obsurdities, we shall commit atroci

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    I think the part I objected to was the idea of "pre loosening her up " with so much vigor that it would be so painful she'd need 2 ibuprophen before hand and would be bleeding. Perhaps he's referring to somehow breaking her hymen during the process..either way, there are much easier and more pleasant ways of deflowering a virgin girl.

    Having said that, I agree with the above mentioned gyno visit. If she is REALLY that uncomfortable/painful during gentle fingering, perhaps she should talk to her doctor.
     
  21. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    I was with a girl with the same situation.
    She would be in pain when I'd stick a finger in.... I could barely get my pinky in without causing her pain.

    Thank God my penis is small.
     

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