Taking a bartender out tonight

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  1. BiscuitsNgroovy

    BiscuitsNgroovy OT Supporter

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    Seems like an obvious answer to me, but I'm guessing it would be a bad idea to bring her to a bar? If not a bar, even somewhere to go get drinks I guess.

    I generally have a good 1st date routine bringing girls to this one bar on Tuesdays, but I will feel kind of retarded asking a girl that works in a bar if she wants to go to one.
     
  2. MattThom01

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    I'd say come up with another date related activity, present both options to her, and let her pick
     
  3. Falconer

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    Just don't take her to the bar she works at.
     
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    absolutely...take her somewhere that has dinner and a bar to chill at

    oh, and just so you know, this will fail. never date a girl bartender if you have any jealousy issues. she will flirt flirt flirt to make good tips and be hit on like crazy
     
  5. BiscuitsNgroovy

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    I'm not planning on dating her, just seeing whats up :naughty:. She works like 5 days a week and goes to school, its not worth the effort.
     
  6. Yuppy

    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    yea you better be able to trust, or not give a fuck.

    i used to bartend. almost all the staff cheats on their SO in some way.
     
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    Take her to church.
     
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  9. Pringles

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    dude take her bowling or something. You need to learn how to find out about someone without alcohol. If you can pull it off females admire it more than the joe who drunk them over the table and tried to fuck them that night. Go outside the box. It's the journey and what you make of it not the place.
     
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    I have working in restaurants since I was 18 and if you work in a restaurant chances are you are slutty.

    That being said I have know a few who were not slutty
     
  11. BiscuitsNgroovy

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    I never really said I needed alcohol to find out about girls, It's just a cheap and easy thing to do for a couple hours thats worked for me before.
     
  12. doubleb23

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    She'll probably just be more particular about noticing what kind of place you take her to since she knows the industry. If it's a genuinely cool place, it's probably a pretty good call. If it's a mediocre/not that interesting place then you're done.

    Maybe try not to hang out there for so long so she doesn't feel like she's back at work. Maybe 3-4 good drinks and then a walk, fresh air etc. Depends on the weather where you are, I guess.
     
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    My ex-gf majored in culinary arts. I think you can see where this is going.
     
  14. RoblesGT

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    i like to go get ice cream ... if its nice weather a good walk is always good too
     
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    doubleb23 Ooooo

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    :werd: ice cream is delicious, follow that with a walk to a bar for a few and win.
     
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    You're crazy thats a perfect date.

    I bet she could even get you both free drinks, and food if they serve food there.

    So if things go well with the free drinks you can sex it up later, if not how can you even lose if you're getting free drinks?

    Seriously though I like the idea someone suggested of letting her choose between the two ideas, if shes cool with going to a bar then do that, if not then she can pick the alternative.
     
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    i'm going to have to agree. she'd have some great social proof at her job...plus she'd know all the ins and outs.....


    couldnt be all bad, right?
     
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    howd it go?
     
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    you could take her to a very different type of bar. i.e. taking her to a more modern lounge would be OK if she works in an irish pub

    that being said i think the best you can do for these types of girls is provide a playful date, something where you both get to be big kids.
     
  20. Pringles

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    No why would I ever want to do that :squint: I'm on to you :cool:
     
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  22. BiscuitsNgroovy

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    Pretty good. We ended up just going to a lil neighborhood bar and just chilled for a couple hours. Didn't even get a :cjerk: in the parking lot, so I guess it could be deemed as a failure.
     
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    Social proof should work in your favor not hers in this situation. You want to be socially proven/enhanced in their eyes.

    Taking her to her work would have been a bad move.
     
  24. lauren

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    every man for himself.
     
  25. Bugalu

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    thats so fuckin true.
     

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