takin the next step?!!

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  1. perfectgetaway

    perfectgetaway New Member

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    so ive been dating this girl for like 3 months or so, and we have messed around a few times, i think we are ready to have sex, but she doesnt seem want it. she is definatly a virgin, and so i am, i wont bullshit anyone on that. but i think that it would be worthwile for both of us that way. everytime i try to initiate it she doesnt seem to want to go farther. i dont know what to do next.

    any suggestions?
     
  2. Carpet Liquor

    Carpet Liquor New Member

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    Wait until she's ready.
     
  3. incubimmer

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    wait, or find a more giving gf.
     
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    naughtie New Member

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    You don't want to be that guy that every girl dreads... the one that pushes so hard that she either has to dump you or even worse, she gives in and then hates herself and you for it.

    just be patient, dude. sex isn't everything
     
  5. sipherx

    sipherx Jamesl.info

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    Yea dont force her into anything she isnt ready for. She obviously isnt sure yet what she wants to do. Maybe you should talk to her and see her opinions and views on having sex. Maybe she is waiting for that right person and maybe she doesnt wanna give "it" up yet.
     
  6. Ghostaz0r

    Ghostaz0r With my ego, I can stand there in a Speedo, and be

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    :sadwavey: Thats THE MOST important thing about first-time sex.
     
  7. lauren

    lauren Active Member

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    ditto. dont push the issue.
     
  8. sipherx

    sipherx Jamesl.info

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    Like someone said earlier sex isnt really all that.

    Unless you love the person, because thats one of these most intimate ways to express love and compassion towards your partner. So dont feel bad about not having sex if she doesnt want too. Myabe if your guys develop a strong loving realtionship you can share something that cant be explained.
     
  9. perfectgetaway

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    well thanks for the help
    youre all very right on the issue
     
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    If you want to sex her up then you are going to have to wait until she is ready and let her know how you feel but that you will wait for when she feels ready. i've been waiting now on my gf for 27 months now.
     
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    The Secretary My domestic skills will rock your socks off!

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    still waiting and me and so been together for about 18 months and still no where near ready.
     
  12. Kirk Hinrich

    Kirk Hinrich New Member

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    jesus christ
    :eek4:
     
  13. MiseryIndex

    MiseryIndex i never know why. i only know who. Moderator

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    holy crap dude....

    you're my little brother's age.


    just chill.
     
  14. AstroGirl

    AstroGirl If I don't respond it's because I have severe ADD

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    Yeah, just relax and wait until she is ready :)
     
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    Fack, I feel old. :noes:
     
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    DesignerAddic71 RIP Luther Vandross 1951-2005

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    shouldnt that be important about all sex?
     
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