takes hours for him to cum with condom

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  1. OhFourTwoThree

    OhFourTwoThree New Member

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    My boyfriend and I recently decided to use condoms. I don't want to go on BC because of side effects (I was on it before). He warned me that it takes him a long time to cum on condoms. Well it took him two hours to cum. I don't mind a long session sometimes but not every time. I asked him why it took him so long and he says that sex with a condom isn't as good for him so that's why it's longer/harder for him to cum. I wonder if we're going to have 2 hour sessions every time now. :ugh: :ugh: :ugh:
     
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    there are ultra thin condoms so that might be an option...how long have you been dating? and what are the side effects you don't like...cause all types of BC are different :big grin:
     
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    I have tried (without a condom on) and it only hurts me because he is so big. His length is probably 7 inches and he's very thick.
     
  4. OhFourTwoThree

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    How strong are ultra thin condoms? My bf is pretty thick so I am afraid of ultra thin condoms tearing on us.

    We've been dating for the past few months.

    I gain a lot of weight on BC and I also experience migraines off/on.
     
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    I can never cum with a fucking condom...I mean I can but not always. I've mostly been in ltrs with bc so I've only had to use a jimmy hat the first few times but they pretty much suck. I've always wanted to try one of those super thin urethane ones. my company actually developed a material for one (no free samples though, just a trojan hat).
     
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    Condoms suck...but use them anyways and learn to give good head to finish him off
     
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    yeah but the problem most girls have with that is yer dick tastes like condom after sex.
     
  8. JohnnyB683

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    It's better than tasteing like herpes
     
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    experiment with different condoms. i use crown condoms but they may be too tight for him since you said that he is very 'thick'
     
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    Proceed with a hand job.
     
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    use thin condoms
     
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    I guess we can try thin condoms. I just hope they don't break on us.

    I thought about getting the IUD but I don't like the idea of keeping a copper wire in me plus your period becomes a lot heavier. Again, he's pretty big so I also afraid that it will be unsafe to have sex with an IUD in me.
     
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    its my understanding that most peoples periods get lighter, or even go away. why would sex be unsafe?
     
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    you are being pretty stupid. you have to give him the buttsechs now
     
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    The pill tends to make periods lighter but not the IUD. I am afraid that the IUD would injure him and/or me because of his size.
     
  17. OhFourTwoThree

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    What is buttsechs?
     
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    LMAO.....the IUD goes in your uterus, the guys penis goes up your cervix. Therefore you/him wont actaully FEEL his penis touching the IUD....
     
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    From my understanding, you have to regularly check to see if the IUD is properly placed. Therefore, it can't be that far up into your uterus.
     
  20. Cerridwen

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    You are pretty misinformed about the IUD. The IUD is placed in your uterus but there is a small string that hangs out of your cervix (which the man can't really feel during sex-at least that's what my husband claimed). The length of the string is how you check to see if your IUD is in the correct position.

    There are two types of IUDs, copper and the Mirena. The copper IUD is effective for up to 10 years and has very little effect on your period. The Mirena IUD is a hormone based IUD and women generally experience lighter periods/no periods within a year when using this type. Here is some more infor on IUDs http://www.plannedparenthood.org/pp2/portal/medicalinfo/birthcontrol/pub-contraception-iud.xml

    big1, the penis doesn't actually go up your cervix ;) The penis goes in your vagina. The cervix is fairly "closed off" until you are in labor (when it dialates to allow the baby to pass through). Here's a picture for reference.
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