TIME. Revel in the fact that a year from now you you will probably look back at (insert situation with woman, gf, wife, ex,lover, whatever) and you will be able to walk confidently forward with your life. You are thinking this - "Posting my emotional rampage of feelings and emotions and needs and how I LOVE her will HELP SOMEHOW". My ONE piece of advice is TIME. As old as it is, it heals all wounds and will probably open new ones with itself.