Wirelessly posted via wap.offtopic.com (crackberry 9000: BlackBerry9000/126.96.36.1994 Profile/MIDP-2.0 Configuration/CLDC-1.1 VendorID/102) Anyone else have this problem. GF and I went to two swingers parties recently and didn't do anything with others because of an overwhelming onslaught of fat, old, and ugly. Are the hot young swingers groups just more exclusive or do we have to get into some kind of clubdrug subculture? Would we have better luck finding chicks online? What are your success stories?