Suspicious about women contacting you on sites?

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  1. Riconosuave

    Riconosuave New Member

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    Maybe it's just me, but do any of you guys feel a bit suspicious when attractive women initiate the contact on dating sites? Attractive women only need to post up hot pictures of themselves and sit back and wait for the emails to arrive.
     
  2. Cerridwen

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    So attractive women should not seek out mates of their own? They should simply wait to wade through the piles of emails from fat slobs and hope that their prince charming contacts them?
     
  3. Riconosuave

    Riconosuave New Member

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    Don't get me wrong ... I love and respect women who know what they want and aren't afraid to go after it. I just get paranoid and start thinking these women are setting me up for a scam. It's twisted, I know. Also, I didn't see it from that perspective. Makes some sense.
     
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    I don't meet people online, only in person, and to do that I recommend you leave your house and get away from the glowing white screen. ;)
     
  5. Cerridwen

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    Anybody has the potential to scam anyone. Obviously you shouldn't trust anybody online.
     
  6. Coottie

    Coottie BOOMER......SOONER OT Supporter

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    NO...you are overthinking this and trying to read to much into it. It's a dating site...get over it.
     
  7. MattThom01

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    I know some of the more "adult" dating type of sites have tons of bots on them designed to email you/add you to a hotlist or whatever just to try to get you to join the site so you email them back..I'm sure that after you do, you find out that they are fake profiles just advertising paysites.

    You can generally tell them because they are very attractive women who live nowhere near you, and use the same lines you see in spam porn emails.
     
  8. Spiritus

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    hot woman will not PM you. they are recepticols, not plugs.

    the woman that are PMing you... well her name is spambot. :)

    now you might have seen the blue moon. if so, follow that up purely out of interest.
     
  9. ArthurPewty

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    I've met women off of Craig's List and I think that MattThom's advice is good in checking where they are from, the content of the message, and the quality of the picture. But remember anyone could be "scamming" you in one way or another. Even if it's not a porn site, how do know that is how the person actually looks?



    Off topic, my ex hated when I called her that.
     
  10. Marmot

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    Some women love the chase, others like to be chased :dunno:
     
  11. VashTheStampede

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    Does her pic look like it's a professional? That's usually a big give away. Also, like someone else said, definately look where they're from and how the message to you and her profile is written. I've seen alot of the bots use all lower case, and some of them don't use proper punctuations. Plus, if she's not from your exact town, but one close, look at other women from that town and compare the profiles.
     
  12. Riconosuave

    Riconosuave New Member

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    I can usually spot the bots. This one looks legit. Very detailed profile, and pics of her and family. Also, she's an older woman :drool:
     
  13. VashTheStampede

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    Hell, you should be good to go then. You might as well give it a try. I just met up with one tonight and she contacted me, so I say go for it.
     
  14. Spiritus

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    Yeah I know, recepticol is a horrible world for a woman. Another mean one to say would be like... well you know how they say there is plenty of fish in the ocean... well you are just another stall in the bathroom.

    :mamoru:

    So mean. I only used recepticol once as a joke :big grin:
     
  15. Riconosuave

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    I was correct to be suspiscious. I think it was just BS, but I'll have to give it a few more days before I'm positive. No worries though ... talking with another woman. Good to have options. BTW, should I be playing it cool by replying to emails after a couple of days? Work has conditioned me to answer emails in a timely fashion. I don't have much experience with online dating sites.
     
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  16. BradUF

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    What site are you using by the way? Im using true.com.. The thing that sucks about being a guy on one of these sites is that you go threw all the girls in about a month or two.
     
  17. Riconosuave

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    True. Out of all the women, only a handful really interest me. Something unexpected has happened. I am getting replies from the emails I sent out from multiple women. I even already got one woman's number, and she wants me to call her. We haven't even really exchanged emails yet :noes: I can barely handle one woman as it is.
     
  18. Jacy

    Jacy red lipstick brigade

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    try okcupid.com
     
  19. Spiritus

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    looks better then myspace.

    fuckin hard meeting a girl that doesnt cut herself nightly on myspace or gets drunk and always has a boy but lists herself as single. or is fat or oogly.

    going to a college full of guys makes the female situation quite difficile.
     

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