FRK surprise sex...

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  1. dude101

    dude101 New Member

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    just wondering what you ladies and gents think on this subject..


    do u think surprise sex is classified as rape with your s.o ?:dunno: :confused:
     
  2. Barbie™

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    Not if you discuss it with them first.
    It can be considered a fantasy for some people.
     
  3. pigeon

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    as long as your s/o is consenting to what you're doing, it's not rape. have you discussed this with her beforehand? like epitofme said, if y'all have discussed it and agreed that it will be part of your sex life, then no. if she says no at any point and you do it anyway, then you've crossed the line into rape.
     
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    open communication here is the way to go. I mentioned that I want the bf to ambush me and have sex with me, or wake me up already having sex with me, so I wouldnt feel like I was being raped. Another girl may feel taken advantage of. just bring it up and wait a while so its still a surprise.
     
  5. Veinomenoca

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    You know, when I first started to read this, I thought oh, he woke up to sex. I've had that/ done that before. He was hard, and I woke up horney, so I took care of the problem. And I have woke up to mouth between my legs. Its a nice way to wake up in the morning.
     
  6. mikmit

    mikmit :o? OT Supporter

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    this is what will happen when i meet pigeon :naughty:











    NOT~ ;)
     
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    For me, surprise sex means I have gone to bed totally nekkid and he knows that is a sign to do as he wishes. The surprise is what he does.....

    I guess I should have mentioned that this started when I worked days and he worked night, so I would be hours into sleep before he came to bed. :)
     
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  8. mikmit

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    oh chalk up rougeogre for said suprise in earlier post ^___^



    :kisses:
     
  9. Lovely Atlantis

    Lovely Atlantis Luscious Lovely Lady!

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    hmm if going to bed naked is an invitation then I guess I invite Bubba every night!:mamoru: I do have to say I love when he wakes me up with sex in the middle of the night. Because all my inhibitions are down with being in such a relaxed state I can get so much wetter faster. Sleep sex is possibly my favorite type of sex actually.
     
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    x2, mmm cant wait til tonight...:drool:
     
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    i love surprise sex.. i always sleep naked, but i dont always get a ''surprise''.. but when i do.. oh my god, its so great to wake up to my bf eating me out and fingering me.. once im awake, he goes straight to fucking me.. and im always down for it.. wake me up for any other reason, and ill eat your throat out.. but wake me up to make me cum, and im going to love you forever..
     
  12. dude101

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    :oohhh man i'm soo jealous of all your peoples stories...:squint:
     
  14. Veinomenoca

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    dude101...why is this weird? Cause my av is a guy & i'm a girl?
     
  15. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    WERD ie, I agree.


    btw, that is hot. I want to be raped
     
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    Its not rape if your SO is consenting. I know my partner and I think its hot to call sex rape because we usually make it painful and practically abusive. I'd love it if my partner surprised me with sex...like in the middle of the night when Im sleeping or something!
     
  17. Oerdin

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    Naw, my girl and I used to do it to each other fairly regularly when we first moved in together. We might have sex 3-4 times a night on some nights, fall asleep in between roads, and then who ever initiates the next round just starts rubbing/sucking/fuck/whatever the other awake.
     
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    :noes:
     
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    this is the face you will make when you wake up and im the big spoon. suprise!
     
  20. you know me

    you know me OT where the douchbags play

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    I 'raped' my ex before when we were together. never felt her cum that hard
     
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    "Suprise sex" and "rape" are very different things.

    And I'm all for suprise sex!
     
  22. Veinomenoca

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    Yes, normally the conversation comes up of 'hay what would you say of me waking you up with sex?' it goes from there. I'm a horn dog, so that just totally turns me on just thinking of waking up to sex.

    but, i've also done the 'rape' senerios, and we talk about it before hand, so its just role playing. but it is hot.
     
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    a rape scenario is very different from an actual rape. role playing can be totally hot, as long as both partners are consenting (at some point). i know there are people who think rape scenarios are hot, and it's a turn on, but i'm guessing most people who role play rapes have discussed it at some point beforehand and that makes it totally different from an actual rape where there has been NO consent at ANY point.

    i think if it's your thing and you're turned on by it and both partners agree, rock it.

    but like most things we talk about in here, there's got to be communication.
     
  24. ForgottenSpiral

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    My body is pretty much my SO's to do with as she pleases any time, any place (so long as it doesn't hurt too much). I've never had an SO that felt that way, but I'm currently looking for one. Heh.
     
  25. Lovely Atlantis

    Lovely Atlantis Luscious Lovely Lady!

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    so basically you're a sub looking for a dom?
     

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