sure fire ways to impress a girl in bed

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by c.a, Oct 29, 2006.

  1. c.a

    c.a New Member

    Joined:
    Jan 24, 2006
    Messages:
    1,117
    Likes Received:
    0
    - I joined the military 8 months ago

    - I started "dating" my BEST friend from back home 6 months ago

    - Although we've both been in love with one-another for years, external factors that i wont get into kept us from doing anything about it.

    - we will most likely get married

    - I've had one long term sexual partner

    - She's had multiple short term ones

    - I am in that rare breed of guys that likes sex but thinks that its far from the most imortant thing in a relationship

    - My last partner was a pretty big prude so sex was rare and not that exciting.

    - she is a nymphmaniac


    Ok, now that you have some facts let me get to the point. I'll be coming home for the first time in december and I'll have about one week when I can be with my girl. After that it will be another 6 months or so til I can see her again. In that week that I am there I really want to impress her in bed. I've been best friends with her long enough to know that she is very critical of men in the bedroom. Even though I don't doubt my skills and know that she would never break up with me over anything like that, its still something I've really been worrying about. I just don't want her going over in her head for 6 months about how mediocre it was. I want her to have something to think about when she plays with her toys after i leave.

    So, OT, I have 7 days to impress a nymphomaniac. I have no idea what she likes in bed. I know I'm being kind of vague, but does anyone have any SURE FIRE ideas that I could try?

    (I've also been kind of thinking about some sort of natural male enhancment pill, just to be on the safe side, but i don't know about that one)
     
  2. Bailey

    Bailey OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Jul 8, 2002
    Messages:
    9,982
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Brooklyn NYC
    i'm not reading all that. sex isn't that complicated. try playing with her asshole.
     
  3. c.a

    c.a New Member

    Joined:
    Jan 24, 2006
    Messages:
    1,117
    Likes Received:
    0
    now i know for a fact she doesn't like that.
     
  4. micks

    micks the snausage wallet OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Aug 1, 2005
    Messages:
    3,347
    Likes Received:
    0
  5. keleko

    keleko yes, he is

    Joined:
    May 22, 2005
    Messages:
    28,741
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    lauderhill, fl
    and you think she's not gonna be fucking someone else?
     
  6. lauren

    lauren Active Member

    Joined:
    Apr 11, 2005
    Messages:
    38,880
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Palo Alto, CA
    what is she into? find a fetish/desire of hers, and play it out.
     
  7. dguy

    dguy She smells like angels ought to smell.

    Joined:
    Oct 28, 2004
    Messages:
    4,686
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Santa Barbara, CA
    If shes a nymphomaniac and you're just kind of meh about sex, just pack in as many times as you possibly can.
     
  8. RyeLou

    RyeLou OT Supporter

    Joined:
    May 12, 2004
    Messages:
    5,065
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Detroit-ish
    qft.

    I was in the same boat as you. The last girl I dated for 2.5 years wanted to wait until marriage before having sex. We actually had sex a couple of times over the period of a week within 10 months of first dating...and then she decided it didn't feel right (in terms of her relgious beliefs) so we stopped and I was fine with that. Prior to her I had dated a girl who just wanted sex...they were quite the opposites. Like someone said, if they're all about sex they aren't overly into performance as long as they're getting off.
     
  9. lauren

    lauren Active Member

    Joined:
    Apr 11, 2005
    Messages:
    38,880
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Palo Alto, CA
    :hsugh: not true
     
  10. Socrates

    Socrates New Member

    Joined:
    Feb 25, 2005
    Messages:
    7,356
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Springfield, MO
    Was the biography really necessary? A simple "sex tip" thread would have been fine.

    The resources on being good in bed are all over the internet or in book stores. Seek the knowledge.
     
  11. Soybomb

    Soybomb New Member

    Joined:
    Aug 30, 2003
    Messages:
    9,041
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Illinois
    Burn your money instead, at least you'll get to see something happen.

    Really though, just start fucking. Its the only way to learn what each of you like. Talk about it later. "What did you like, what didn't you like?" There's no magic to it, most of being a good sex partner is about just trying to make your partner happy. Most people are out for their own nut and it shows in bed. So have fun, communicate, and keep trying til you find out what works.
     
  12. low20

    low20 Member

    Joined:
    Aug 10, 2003
    Messages:
    597
    Likes Received:
    0
    next time you guys talk, or e-mail or whatever, try to initiate something sexual..i donno if uve had phone sex before, but its awesome and can be beneficial to you in this situation. ask her what she wants you to do to her when u see her, etc...when i was in a LD relationhip with my gf, we started having phone sex toward the end and she would say some kinky stuff that I didnt veen know she wanted to do....it was crazy and it gets you worked up and excited for when u will see eachother...ask her what she wants you to do, tell her what your going to do, tell her what you want her to do to you etc...believe me, when ur in sex mode, you say things more easily and you will know what she wants and how she wants it...try it out man
     
  13. bandwagon

    bandwagon Copy/Paste

    Joined:
    May 27, 2005
    Messages:
    1,501
    Likes Received:
    0
    Often when chicks talk about the best sex they ever had it isn't about how many times they got off. It's about how she FELT (emotion-wise) during the sex. Ramp up her feelings with a TON of foreplay, use lots of rich descriptions, and fuck her mind first and foremost.
     
  14. RyeLou

    RyeLou OT Supporter

    Joined:
    May 12, 2004
    Messages:
    5,065
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Detroit-ish
    Wasn't saying every woman is the same. I was speaking from my experience. That relationship also went no where so take it for what it's worth.
     
  15. antihero

    antihero OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Aug 19, 2002
    Messages:
    14,238
    Likes Received:
    10
    Location:
    NYC
    foreplay foreplay foreplay. Act sexy when you are out. be concious of how your body, give her the "im gonna fuck you silly when we get home" look. then when it comes time to it.. slow it down. make the room smell good and give it some nice dim lighting.

    massages are always good.
     
  16. MattThom01

    MattThom01 New Member

    Joined:
    Jan 2, 2006
    Messages:
    8,752
    Likes Received:
    0
    I think you're worrying too much about it. Remember, it's beeen just as long for her as it has for you, so she will probably be looking forward to it just as much. Just enjoy it and be happy that you have the chance to be together. It will be much more natural.
     
  17. fcheerleader

    fcheerleader New Member

    Joined:
    Jan 22, 2005
    Messages:
    22,442
    Likes Received:
    0
    do the spiderman
     
  18. Pringles

    Pringles New Member

    Joined:
    Oct 29, 2005
    Messages:
    4,692
    Likes Received:
    0
    and how do you know this?
     
  19. erobbins

    erobbins Active Member

    Joined:
    Sep 19, 2003
    Messages:
    81,031
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    under the 13th street causeway
    ask if you can pee on her
     
  20. GTLifter

    GTLifter Banned

    Joined:
    Feb 28, 2005
    Messages:
    62,453
    Likes Received:
    1
    Location:
    Durty Durty ATL Niggah
    the marlin.
     
  21. Pump Scout

    Pump Scout New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 11, 2006
    Messages:
    172
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Wisconsin
    Remember to make it about HER, not you. Put all your energy and intention into making her happy, and your own happy will follow. You can explore the freaky stuff later... or very shortly, depending on what she wants. ASK. If you assume all she likes is basic, missionary, 1-2-3 steps, then that's all you'll get. Communication will open lots of fun doors.
     
  22. JJM Enterprises

    JJM Enterprises New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 6, 2006
    Messages:
    131
    Likes Received:
    0
    If she is a nympho, are you sure there isn't any worry that she might be going elsewhere? Especially if you're concerned that you might not live upto what she is wanting or expecting. In that case, I would definitely pull out all the stops - toys, as many positions as possible, give her the emotional high, etc etc. Don't stop till' ya drop!
     
  23. WMB

    WMB New Member

    Joined:
    Mar 30, 2006
    Messages:
    172
    Likes Received:
    0
    long and hard
     
  24. ever absurd

    ever absurd New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 9, 2006
    Messages:
    178
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Maryland
    I suppose asking her ex-bf's isn't an option...
    although they would probably give you the best advice.

    sorry I have nothing productive to contribute :(
    good luck with that though.
     
  25. OhFourTwoThree

    OhFourTwoThree New Member

    Joined:
    Aug 5, 2006
    Messages:
    833
    Likes Received:
    0
    Ask her what she likes. It's as simple as that.
     

Share This Page