Long story short wife and i don't have sex due to personal issues with her. I recently found out she is still masturbating with a vibrator we bought years ago. Typical straight, hard multi-speed vibrator. Can any of you ladies suggest items that she might like that would be something that i can get her to change it up if she wants? can't be anything too crazy but post up ideas and i'll decide if she might dig it or not. Thanks.