suggestions to avoid "eww get away from me"

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  1. P07r0457

    P07r0457 New Member

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    there's this girl that works in a jewelry shop... She doesn't really know I exist... But what is a good way to ask her to hang out without scaring her away? I understand that it's either gonna work or it's not gonna work... but I just haven't found a scenario that doesn't result in that "eww get away from me" when I run it over in my head. I mean it's a jewelry store, so that's a tough one for me.


    I was thinking go in with a friend who's looking for jewelry for his gf (legit, he wants to get her pearls) and then at least I have an opportunity to shoot-the-shit with her?


    And for the women out there, can you give some suggestions? Is the "hey lets get a cup of coffee" line just way too overused? What would you consider a genuine and sweet way of getting asked out without being put on the spot?

    Thank you for any suggestions.
     
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    Get her to put on the pearls to "see what they look like on..." then u can compliment her (or the pearls). Though i dunno if she could do it if she works there..
     
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    "lets grab a coffee" is still nice. Try asking her out as a friend first, its less threatening.
     
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    I almost never say that, but I'm going to make an exception here. It's better to not have an avatar/custom user title than to say 'insert X here,' it just looks bad. Not tryna be insulting but jeeeez.

    <3
     
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    haha, I used the cup of coffee thing on friday
     

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