I've been pretty much living with my gf since the winter. I was travelling 34 miles each way to and from teh gf's to my job, and my parents' house, where I had lunch each day and talked with my folks. I also stayed there a night or 2 a week when the gf was working a backshift. Today was the last day of my old job, I start the new one tomorrow. The new job is 10 min away from the gf, and I'm moving in. When I packed SOME of my stuff tonight, my mom broke down. I did too. I haven't seen my mom cry since her mother died in 2002. It was tough to see. She said she's going to miss my daily visits, and the occasional evening staying over. I told her I'm only a half hour away, and I still will probably stop over for the occasional evening when my gf is working backshifts. And I'll always call. Not to mention that I'll be over on my days off too. But the emotions are tough. If you recall, my dad is very sick: http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=2694588&highlight=dad So They're always on my mind MY gf is very understanding too, which makes this easier on me. SHe said I don't have to move in if I don't want to. I want to, there's no denying that! IBhate. Yes, I'm 34 and living at home. Serious replies only please.