FRK Stupid prob.

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  1. Pyropup55

    Pyropup55 Active Member

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    never posted over ihere, but my prob is I've never been able to orgasm from a blow job, my GF is amazing at it but I never seem to get the that spot. Is that normal or is there something I can do about it?

    Also on an uplifting note, I made my gf squirt the other day. It was fucking awesome. We have to keep towels on the bed now.
     
  2. kdizzle59

    kdizzle59 New Member

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    well before bubba says it i will, communicate, tell her what you want and tell her how you would like it so she can make you orgasm.

    and congrats on the squirt
     
  3. B00M

    B00M I speak of peace while covert enmity

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    Props on the squirting! Never knew it was actually possible until a couple of days ago.

    For BJ's I'm going to agree that communication is key but it doesn't mean that you have to have a boring sit down "Hey Honey lets discuss...blah...blah...blah..."

    Maybe watch a porn that has a good bj scene and say something like " hey we should try that"....or "that looks like fun"...etc...the way she handles criticism will directly reflect the way you approach the situation...so be delicate and not too serious.
     
  4. pigeon

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    don't take this the wrong way (as it's the internet and sometimes meaning is misconstrued) - do you think it's something on your end? i ask that because the way you phrase it seems like you might be thinking it is. is there something holding you back from orgasming from a blow job? do you have any trouble having an orgasm otherwise? is it something about coming in her mouth as opposed to elsewhere?
    I could be totally off the wall here, but i'm tossing it out there.....
     
  5. JoJoBee

    JoJoBee Hanging out with my chicks! OT Supporter

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    communication and relax.
     
  6. Kinks

    Kinks Sup. OT Supporter

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    I was always worried about shooting into the back of the girl's throat and making her choke. then one day I stopped worrying, and BLAM! like painting a room with dynamite :mamoru:
     
  7. jimbob200521

    jimbob200521 Only the dead are forever young...

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    I've never been able to cum from a BJ, either. It's just not quite the same, imo...
     
  8. Bubba Atlantis

    Bubba Atlantis New Member

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    lol I see my presence is here without me here :mamoru:

    Communication is important, but maybe you just don't orgasm from head? I suspect it is actually a mental block on your part for some reason. That isn't meant to be mean to you, just any sexual 'problems' that an individual has, tends to be something in their own head. Thus the key is finding that part out for yourself :)

    Or you may just not orgasm from that sort of stimulation. Some girls orgasm, squirt, etc from certain stimulation and not from different stimulation. Thus, maybe that stimulation doesn't work for you. Nothing wrong with that.

    A bit more info might be helpful though. By that I mean, the context of the sexual act. Also, what are your thoughts when she is giving you head, how long it is, how you feel when you are getting close (if you do). Also, pay attention to when she is giving you head as to what really gets your mojo going (ha, I can not believe I used the word 'mojo' :mamoru:). For instance, I figure most men can sit there for a while stroking their penis and not cum. But, you are getting stimulation, so you should be able to cum right. Conversely, I am sure you can cum in under a minute. Thus, the situation and other factors come into play.

    Hopefully this will be a good starting point, however, if you are willing to provide more information, I think others can be more helpful in here
     
  9. razi

    razi New Member

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    i have trouble orgasming from a blowjob too. it takes a lot of dedication on the girl's part to get me there.

    stop masturbating so much, that should help.
     
  10. 4/20

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    wow I must have the best girl in the world. never had a hard time spraying the back of her throat. Make sure that your chick is using both her mouth and her hand (trust me) also make sure there is enough slobber on your nobber it makes quite a dif.
     
  11. busydoingnothing

    busydoingnothing A broken man too tough to cry

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    There's obviously a psychological element here; you're worried about it so much and nothing makes orgasming more difficult than stress/worry/anxiety/thinking too much. Another part of it could be her technique...maybe she's missing something. I've noticed a lot of girls neglect the hand action when they're giving a blowjob...throwing a hand into the mix really helps out.
     
  12. jab1983

    jab1983 40/40 crew failure with less than 1 week to go...D

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    I know what your talking about, for me head alone doesn't do it. I've only cum from it a total of three times since I was 19 (23 now).

    I love it and its great to get as fourplay and during sex but as for cuming its just not enough for me. I don't think anythings wrong but if you want to come from it take a lesson porns and fuck her then when your closer to that point the she can finish you up.
     
  13. whamola

    whamola Tonight....you.

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    That is true...I have a hard time from just a bj also...what usually works for me is for her to go to using her hand once I sorta-kinda feel like I'm about there...that'll usually finish it off.
     
  14. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I've had actually more than a few guys friends tell me that they've never been able to cum from blowjobs (once they got into this discussion abohut it). All said that they had had extremely good head but just couldn't get there and they would just turn it in sex :dunno:

    So you are not alone. I think it's all mental really.
     

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