Stuck between a rock and MY hard place

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  1. adamfool

    adamfool New Member

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    Hey everyone,
    this is my first thread in here even though i am a long time lurker, so i apologise for the length of it!

    I'm at college here in the UK, doing a part time course for a year before i transfer to a full time university. My course has a huge mix of people, all at different ages who basically are trying to better themselves.

    I get on really well with one of the women in my class, and there's a very very strong sexual attraction between the both of us. Normally that would be an awesome thing, but of course there's complications! Not only is she twice my age (i'm a 'mature' 20 year old) which isnt an issue for either of us, but she's also unhappily married. She's made it clear in conversation that she's not looking for some kind of long term relationship, just someone to have some 'fun' with...
    I'm really unsure about what i feel i should do. On one hand, i have beliefs about marrage and women who arn't single, as in that makes them off limits straight away. However, she's incredably hot and i want her physically more than i've wanted any other girl in a long time and it'd be a great experience!
    I'm torn between sleeping her and feeling shit because i've somehow compromised my ideals and not sleeping with her and feeling shit because i missed out on a great oppertunity, which no other 20 year old would turn down!:hs:

    Cliffs: hot and unhappily married woman wants fun time, i'm 20 and single, but i normally consider women with partners off limits. What do I do?
     
  2. Viper

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    Most everybody else is going to tell you to leave her alone, she's married, blah blah. And they are so right.

    But you aren't going to listen to them, are you? You're looking for someone to give you permission to do something you know is wrong. So here:

    Go for it. Fuck her tirelessly, endlessly for hours on end, grab a sandwich and do it again.

    then, expect drama.
     
  3. Viper

    Viper OT Supporter

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    But don't come crying to us when her husband shows up on your doorstep waving a gun in your face or some crazy shit like that. lol
     
  4. Sylver

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    She's not married Viper. Take a quick look again. :hsugh:
     
  5. Viper

    Viper OT Supporter

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    :wtf:

    What part of "unhappily MARRIED" means that she is not still married?

    Is she separated or something?
     
  6. Mangina

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    What?
     
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    :rolleyes:
     
  8. Sylver

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    :doh: My bad. :rofl:
     
  9. Viper

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    Oh shit son, you just bought a sub. :bowdown:
     
  10. Sylver

    Sylver New Member

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    :bigthumb: It's been a while since I last had one.
     
  11. BedBunny

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    go for it. you know you want to. make sure you wrap it good though.
     
  12. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Well if you have any morals you will leave her alone. Just because she's a piece of shit that fails to see the point of her marriage doesn't mean you should benefit from it.

    How would you feel if in 10 years you were married and found out your wife wanted to fuck some 20 year old dude in a class she was taking? Probaby not that great. Don't think with your dick, think with your brain.
     
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    well, as a fellow 20 year old guy I say fuck her until she walks funny, and then do it again. But as a person, thats tough. If you think in terms of the Golden Rule, you should stay away.

    You're going to do it anyways, I would. Live and learn. But tread softly when you do.
     
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    Walk away man. Although it sounds damn tempting, not worth the drama.
     
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    if she doesn't fuck you, she will find someone else
     
  16. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    I'm a very moral person and usually stay off limits to women with significant others of more than a couple months, especially married.

    So I would suggest you do the same. DO NOT give in to your urges.
    You are young, don't fuck up your life with something like this.

    Now, if she wasn't married, and only dating a person for say a couple months, then you can have my approval.
     
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    :nono:. It's still a moral victory for him ;).
     
  18. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    I'd feel fine with it :hs:
     
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    Whether you do it or not doesn't change the fact that your wife might cheat on you in the future, so that hypothetical isn't important to me.

    It's immoral but as far as we know you only live once and some guys are really hot for older chicks.
     
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    I fail to see what one has to do with the other (because her husband killed her attraction to him and she wants to cheat, you will kill your wife's attraction to you and make her want to cheat?)

    That said, I would not have sexy time with a married woman, because I don't want to risk getting my face beaten in.
     
  21. Kinks

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    hooray! my cock is so dry it's chapping, and unhappily married chick is fucking someone else. but i'm happy because i have my morals.

    :greddy:

    I'm opposed to cheating but if I'm not cheating on someone or being cheated on then I fail to see how I'm morally responsible.

    fuck her, make sure the rules are clear about what's involved and make sure you don't get caught. cut her loose well before there's ANY chance of drama.
     
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  23. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Of course you would, but you wouldn't get married in the first place.
     
  24. adamfool

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    I'm not looking for permission/validation at all, i know that whatever i choose there will be people who think it's the right decision and people that think it was the wrong one. But, i do see how my post came across that way.

    Aquakittie, I've been in and walked away from several situations with un-available women before without even a second thought, following my gut instinct just like you said. And i do know that i should do exactly the same here. The fact that i'm even considering not walking away from this situation is what has got me all confused. I don't know why i feel different here compared to any other time.
     
  25. RubiconSahara

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    Don't walk....run away man! Cut communication with her if it messes with your head that much.
     

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