ok, i was going out with this girl for about 6 months, and we were craaaazy about eachother. like she liked me for a year before we went out and i was juts too dumb to notice. literally one day things juts changed. it got real wierd at the end and we broke up. it went from literally obsession over eachother to her just ending it. i went into a deep depression for like a month. ive never gotten caught over a girl ever and this time it killed me. i missed classes at college, smoked pot daily to deal, and i even got rashes all over my body from stress. then i find out she is going out with another guy, which killed me more. regardless, i still felt thigns were unsettled. it was just too abrupt. then she ims me about 2 weeks ago and says she made a huge mistake and wants to get back together. i was weary adn said wed work toward it and it was a possibility, and she needed to end it with that kid and we needed to chill and fix things cause i was still very bitter about what happened. she agreed since then, a friend, ive always had, well ive started to have feelings for her. weve chilled a few times, movies, coffee, and we are getting real close. yet, i still have my ex, who i still have feelings for, but im still very reluctant because of how she threw me out like garbage so abruptly. i guess my question is, should i choose one, persue it and just give the other one the cold shoulder? should i just chill with them both and see what happens. if i do that, is it really fair to kinda lead them both on and know that one of them will be screwed? im so confused right now. i sound like a stupid highschool kid but idk thats how i feel. any thoughts?