Hi guys, I'm new here, but am looking for some help... I've been dating my gf for about 3.5 years. I'm 26, she's 23. She's crazy about me and is counting down the days until we get engaged/married. However, I'm not so sure... Quite frankly, I have no idea what to do. I feel like I love her a lot, but I don't know if I can marry her. I guess I'm not sure if I love her enough. How do you know if you love someone enough to marry them? I know that if we broke up, I would certainly miss her a ton, but obviously that doesn't mean we should get married. Great things about her: -Sex with her is usually amazing. Her $*&X is very tight. Her boobs are large. -She's very smart and comes from a different background than I do, so we often have interesting conversations -She's still in school for 2 more years, but has the potential to make decent money when she graduates -She has a cute/pretty face and blonde hair -Even though we don't have much in common she makes an effort to try things I like -I like that she's very outgoing / is good friends with my friends Not so great things about her: -Her boobs are somewhat saggy -She's not fat, but certainly not skinny... Has some cellulite issues on her butt. Her mom/grandma/aunt/brother are all definitely fat and so it seems she's genetically predisposed to becoming fat. Thus, there is a definite risk that I won't find her attractive in the future. -Her family is prone to addiction (gambling, drinking, eating disorder) -We don't really have much in common -I get the feeling that my family like her enough, but may not think we should be together in the long term. They have never told me this explicitly though. For various reasons, I have only a few days (max) to make a decision dump/stay with.