Long story short a girl I know was over tonight and we were laying in my bed and kind of fell into the conversation of being friends with benefits. She said she was scared to get into anything with me because she thinks sex will complicate things (it usually does) and she also thinks that I won't be able to stay unattached. I told her I really felt the same about her because I'm used to girls being attached and clingy and that I didn't want that. She wants to still be able to go to clubs and what not, I want to still be able to hang out with my buddies on Fri/Sat nights with no obligations to her. For those of you who have been in a FWB situation what has your experience been? Does someone always get hurt in the end? Was it you or them (male or female)? We both agreed and made it very clear / important to each other that honesty is the most important thing here. If either of us meet someone else we're interested in then it will end. If either of us feel like we're getting attached it needs to be brought up. Personally I don't think I'll have much trouble with this but I'm sincerely afraid she will start to get attached.