So I see these come up all the time here, so Ill try to keep it simple. Im in college, been dating this girl for about 4 months now. I like everything about her (relaxed, caring personality for the most part, non judgemental, very attractive, etc) except for that the fact that she sometimes tells me some random shit I really do not want to know. First of all, she somehow always accidently will mention some previous fling shes had (and there seems to be a lot) which bothered me a bit at first, but I got over it. Yesterday, however, she finally comes out and tells me that shes been frustrated lately that we havent been mixing the sex up enough and that her exboyfriend (not one of the flings, real boyfriend) was better than me. (Apparently Im second best to him ). Personally I think its a bit selfish of her to even mention any of this, as now Im just gonna end up thinking about this shit all the time (not that I wouldeve minded if she had JUST told me she wanted to mix up the sex, I was fine with that!). What do you all think? edit: Forgot to mention that the other guy is the first guy she ever slept with, if that makes any difference.