FRK Stamina

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    93nx1.6 New Member

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    What is the best way to increase stamina, or prolong ejaculation. I have been with my wife 13 years and it seems that most times we have sex it only lasts 3 to 5 minutes before I cum. I know that this is lately making her mad. I have tried the masturbation excersise, and I go slow and have to stop sometimes to keep from cummin but when she gets going and wants it fast and deep I blow with in 1 minute. Is there any creams or OTC pills that actually work? I have heard vagisil works but it will numb both partners. I wont her to enjoy it and have me last longer.. Thanks for the help in advance.
     
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    Yeah tried that. It will last longer but not by much. The thing is I have treid jcking off before hand and can last tell she is done but with 2 kids you kinda have to get it when you can and you cant always take that step. I have tried to get her to get me off first then go at it but then again it comes down to time, If we just have a quicky before bed it kinda upsets her that I am done right when she is starting to enjoy it. I have tried those condoms but I have been cut so it is kinda usless to have to buy condoms and they kinda desensitize her as well when we did use them.
     
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    93nx1.6 New Member

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    Thats true
     
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    Aren't there desensitizing lubes and stuff that you could use? Just a few drops, and you'd be good to go..
     
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    well if u are able during masturbation to get yourself to right before climax, and then stop, and re-start again, u should be able to do the same during sex.

    What will enable you to pound away for a minute straight, is when u get to the point near climax, you have to basically almost have a very weak orgasm but without ejaculation.... if u clench your PC muscles and then maybe pull out and concentrate, u should be able to notice that you had a mild pseudo-orgasm, but with little to no semen coming out. After u do this, start off slow, to kindof wither away the rest of the orgasm, and then u should be at a point where your cock is less sensitive and u can pound away for a little while

    youve gotta strengthen your PC muscle by clenching it frequently throughout the day, and kindof have a really really weak and terrible orgasm so u can keep going. If u get too far into the orgasm, u will ejaculate, and it will be a lot harder to maintain your erection

    I dont know if you have enough libido to do this, but have u tried pulling out, ejaculating, then shoving it back in and pounding away? if u go psycho and keep yourself turned on and bone her real hard, u may be able to just maintain an erection, and the sex will last long. Kindof like if u were able to masturbate immediately before sex.

    What u can also do is take a quick shower (AKA BEAT OFF IN THE SHOWER) before sex. Tell your wife u want to get clean, cuz your kid puked on u, and u rub one out real quick in the bathroom. THen come out, and start with the foreplay until youre hard again and then immediately start boning

    U can also try to get your wife off faster, if possible. Such as if you fuck her from behind and do a reach around, and go psycho on her clit while u slowly go in and out with ur cock, which slows it down for u and speeds it up for her...
     
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    when i ran, i noticed that my sexual endurance went up as well. when i injured my leg and started resting it, i lost it almost immediately.

    cliffs: try jogging
     
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    I have no problem staying hard after I cum but it is kinda of like a job done in her mind when I nut and keep going i guess. Cause I always clean up and try for more and she has kinda lost the mood by then. I guess what she wants is a hard pounding for a good while then both of us cum and fall away into heavy breathing or something like that. I have done that and also her on top and I can physce myself out to not cum until she does but then when I start going at it it seems like I cum when she gets her second wind and starts saying harder and faster. I can last a little while after i cum until she notices it coming out of her and then she asks the question "are you done?" I know it is a weird situation, I ask her afterwards if it was good but I get the feeling that it should have been longer. We talked about it the other night and I asked her if I was to quick and she said sometimes. The hardest part is she is a squirter and sometimes I get her off with a vibe and let her squirt but then I go at it and it is all over really quick then and that is when i see the disappointment the most that she wanted to keep going. That is why I was wondering if those pills work. or not. Something that wont desensitize her and will let me last longer until she is telling me to hurry up.
     
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    I guess if it helps out and will get me in shape 2
     
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    how long in between sessions? one week? one month?
     
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    93nx1.6 New Member

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    It is usaly twice a week
     
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    If you feel like you're about to cum, pull out, then squeeze the head of your penis, hard, until you completely lose the urge to cum. It should only be a few seconds. Then get back at it.

    Jerking off more will definitely help, as well. Beware, though, increased self-indulgence will lead to more random hard-ons...like at work ./bonk
     
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    Dominion I believe you have my stapler.

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    I can't remember exactly what this does (I think it fucks with your prostate) but don't do that. It can lead to medical conditions down the road. Try a pill that gives you an erection for x amount of time. You probably won't use it that long, but atleast you can keep going after you cum.
     
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    BaneBoi ƒł٤şħ Ąđđίçŧ

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    Some good suggestions in here. Best advice I saw was to try to train yourself to be able to control your orgasm. It takes practice, and time. Fuck until you feel the o comin on, pull out, clench, squeeze yourself if it helps. Wait until it fades and start going again. Rinse, repeat. You'll be surprised how intense the orgasm can be if you tease yourself like this.

    I wouldnt bother with pills or anything 99% of that stuff is BS.

    Another good suggestion was to use toys. Great way to start things off, or to keep them going.

    I'd also ask the wife to knock off the "are you done" shit, unless she wants you to stop, let her know asking that pretty much kills the mood. You dont have to be rock hard to fuck, so what if it slips out now and then? If she just doesnt seem to be into it if you arent rock hard, try different positions when the stiffy starts to ebb. There might be an angle she is into that doesnt require you to be so hard.

    Good luck man. :)
     
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    Cocain helps.
     
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    :rofl: @ cocaine comment


    and yeah tell ur wife to stop being such a bitch with the comments.....shes only owning HERSELF
     
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    I use to be a 3 pump chump now its hard busting a nut. It just came with time and experience i got better. Try doing this like you know when ur peeing and stop urself...Just do that while ur fucking.
     
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    It takes time. When I first started sexing my fiance, I would pump-pump-bust sometimes. I can go for a little while, but no as long as I would like. I asked her about the length of sex, and she told me that she doesn't really notice, since I get her off several times beforehand. She just enjoys sex and having me inside her.
     
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    the best way to increse stamina is EXCERSIZE cardio is key
     
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    Its mind over matter man. Think about a bad day at work, or cold weather. If you are not wearing a condom then there should be no problem. Also try pinching your thigh or buttcheek during missionary. It will take your thoughts to the pain and not the sex.
     
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    xela So say we all!

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    :werd: I've noticed a HUGE difference.
     
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    Cardio or a good stiff drink. NOT DRUNK! But a nice relaxing buzz, that agives you more control.
     
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    I agree with this also.

    I'd say maybe have a Martini then a shower (jerk it during) then go for it and you'll def go longer.
     
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    Pending on your class, I would have to Say "Of the Eagle" Gear.
     
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    you can always try some viagra....not a joke, just take some boner pills, then pop one off real quick, you'll still have the erection for like 2 more hours which is more than enough time to satisfy
     
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    excersizing is good. Cock rings, Im told, might help delay ejaculation, but Ive never tried, so I dont know. some kinds of condoms are better for desensitizing yourself, and if you get a textured kind, its an extra treat for her.

    also, try and not put so much pressure on the performance. Remember, there is a lot more to sex than just actual intercourse, so if you happen to finish too soon, do something for her - oral sex, mutual masterbation or use some toys until you get your erection back. That way chances are getting another orgasm will take a long while, you have a better chance at getting her off in the mean time and, if all else fails, hey, at least you got off.


    a ton of these have already been mentioned, but really, if you dont have a workout schedule, I would get one - that tends to help out a lot.
     

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