Stage Fright, Again.

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  1. Whatyougonnado2

    Whatyougonnado2 New Member

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    Last night after hanging with some friends,
    I go back to a girls apt.
    We start messing around.
    And this time i cant get it completely hard, its half way
    but not hard enough to stay up.
    I only had 1 drink 2 hours ealier.

    This has happend before, with another 1 night stand.
    But ive been having sex with a girl for a while now
    and it works perfectly fine. WTF?
     
  2. XERQ

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    its a psychological inhibition. Its like your subconcious is stopping you from performing.
     
  3. Whatyougonnado2

    Whatyougonnado2 New Member

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    I was thinking that, but how do i stop it?
    She was a freak mang, i tell you...
    Soo dominate it was kinda scary!!
     
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    i would guess more foreplay. kissing, touching, etc.

    elaborate more on "we start messing around":naughty:
     
  5. Yail Bloor

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    are you sure you like girls?

    serious question
     
  6. mattz87

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    Don't sweat it dude... im a virgin, but the other night some chick gave me head, and for the first minute or two I was limp as a wet noodle... she wasnt too hot but yeah, it sucked.
     
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    scared -> limp

    if you're not comfortable then your little dude won't do his thing. worrying about it being limp will only make things worse, too :uh:

    happens to everyone at least once in their lives, i'm sure (and if it hasn't happened to you, shutup :rofl: )
     
  8. RedVsBlue

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    He is seeking females
    He is having sex with other females

    Pretty sure people that dont like girls arent actively trying to have sex with them and trying to figure out why it wont work. It seems you have a fundamental misunderstanding of attraction and sexuality
     
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    Dont worry about it, it will happen all throughout your life.

    Thats why you find someone you are comfortable with. That way when it wont work you dont feel embarrassed and you can just go on with more fun foreplay.

    Also, if you know what you are doing, there are pleanty of ways to get a girl off with a limp dick while helping yourself achieve a full erection.
     
  10. Yail Bloor

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    :rofl:

    You are so wrong here.

    I personally know several gay men WITH CHILDREN who "faked it" with females for years because they wanted to be "normal" and not have to face the true fact that they are gay.

    I'm not insulting him. Given the circumstances this is a legitimate question. I'm assuming his equipment works when he is alone, why doesn't it work when he is with a female?

    And please tell me how this in any way is a reflection of my understanding of attraction and sexuality.
     
  11. Whatyougonnado2

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    My unit does work with the girl im with now, at first i had a problem keeping an erection, but the more i hung out and became comfortable with her, that problem went away. I guess im just not made for one night stands :mamoru:

    But im seeing this new girl, and shes skinny and pretty, i dont want the same thing happening to her. So far its only been bad with those 2 fat chicks. :rofl:

    What kind of ways are there to getting her off and achieving an erection?
     

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