This post from PocoDiablo got me thinking about my own situation: Now in my case, I have a couple of health issues that prevent me from being all that spontaneous. I have to eat at basically the same certain times, and select from a very limited number of foods/beverages that are "safe" for me to eat. Because I am this limited and "scheduled," my life basically has to revolve around it. And sometimes, even when I am on schedule, things happen that are beyond my control making it necessary for me to be at home for stretches of a few hours to get myself back under control. Before anyone says it, yes I have been to doctors, had tons of tests, and am on medicine to control myself to the best of my ability, but it isn't always perfect. This makes it difficult for me to be spontaneous, or even to take girls on dates sometimes because I can't always plan far enough in advance around what I know may or may not happen. So my question is this: how can I be spontaneous/interesting to girls, plan dates enough in advance, and offer them enough variety when my life is so structured and limited?