FRK Spanking

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  1. calipolo

    calipolo New Member

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    So i like to be spanked, nothing to rough were i cant sit down the next day or anything, just a little OTK spanking, followed be some rough sex. But the thing is i cant get my boyfriend to spank me. How can i get him to? It gets me dripping wet just thinking about it.
     
  2. AngelsWing

    AngelsWing New Member

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    You might want to try watching some porn that has bdsm in it... Tell him how hot you think it is, and see what he does... Worked for me... ;)
     
  3. Chicago

    Chicago Unleash The Dragon - Sexy Rexy For President

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    .... or just tell em to spank you while you guys are having sex .. dirty talk during sex FTW
     
  4. BedBunny

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    go at it doggystyle. it's a natural position for spanking.
     
  5. BlindSyde

    BlindSyde New Member

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    Dawt. damn hot too.
     
  6. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    I don't know how to spank. :wtc:
     
  7. AngelsWing

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    spanking and japanese rope bondage ftw! :wiggle:
     
  8. greenpillow

    greenpillow New Member

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    hehe in the middle i usally tell him what to do.. haha he does it..
     
  9. godmare

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    I'd advise against saying that during the act if you're not sure how he'll react- it could blow the moment (no pun).
    Try instead the porn suggestion or talking about it beforehand... or talking during foreplay would probably work, too.
     
  10. NCS

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    have you just told him "it gets me dripping wet just thinking about it?"

    cuz if after a plea like that he doesnt do it, move the fuck on. want my number? LOL
     
  11. BaneBoi

    BaneBoi ƒł٤şħ Ąđđίçŧ

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    Yeah, if you tell him "it gets you dripping wet just thinking about it", and he still doesnt want to do it, thats sad. :wtc:
     
  12. gorilla

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    On your knees, giving bj.....stop.
    "I'm a bad girl."
    Continue bj.....stop.
    "I'm a bad girl and should be spanked."
    Continue bj....stop.
    "I am very bad." Just stand up, turn around, and bend over. Helps if you put your hand behind your back.

    Enjoy.

    (If he doesn't respond...your dating a corpse.)
     
  13. Shadygirl

    Shadygirl Love is Life and Happiness

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    ooohhh that's hot, gotta try that. Why would someone not be into it? I mean someone responded with "don't say it during sex cuz it might turn him off" I have never even thought that someone might not enjoy spanking me.....Why would that turn someone off? :ugh:
     
  14. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    As for why I don't desire it? I don't see the turn-on in somebody thinking they are a "naughty." I do see a turn-on in the subservient attitude; however, I don't associate sex with "being bad," in the parental sense of the phrase, as in, "you are a bad little girl."

    If it's not natural for someone to spank you, then they may feel awkward about doing it. Depends on how close u guys are. like I said above, I have no idea how to spank a girl. Since I don't actually desire to spank a girl, it would have to be totally contrived, fake, and forced. Ever watch someone dance badly? Same thing.

    Usually it is very easy to accomodate somebody else's fetish. Just ... do what they want. The only thing here is that I literally don't know the movement, so it feels awkward. It's not a like a girl who has a nipple fetish, for example, which is completely simple: just let her suck on your nipples until she's satiated. Whereas spanking involves me playing a role that doesn't happen to appear in my own fantasies and which I therefore am unfamiliar with. I once tried it with a girl experimentally and she smiled and said, yeah, that's not really it. :hsugh:
     
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    So you might spank them 'badly'?? How would that go? You miss there ass and whack them in the back of the head? :)
     
  16. m3m750

    m3m750 Kickin' it old school

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    that made me laugh out loud.

    BTW, I 3rd the idea of telling him it makes you dripping wet, if that doesn't do it, seriously reconsider your options.
     
  17. toyotaboy32

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    hey maybe you should just tell me! i dont think its a good idea that you post it on OT since i am the one that introduced you to OT. did you think i wasn't gonna find out? c'mon kim! now, i think you need to you your cute little ass over here before you DON'T get the punishment that you deserve!!! and BTW i really want you to blow me tromorrow before we go to the club.
     
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    have him grab your ass real hard. once he can get that down, then move his way to spanking you.
     
  19. lauren

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    then just tell him to do it.
     
  20. jmechy

    jmechy Calmer then you are.

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    For some reason it still surprises me when my girl asks me to spank her and call her names. But hell, if it makes it even better for her, then I'm in. You can be my bitch any time you want, as long as I'm getting some.
     
  21. Schadenfreude13

    Schadenfreude13 New Member

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    No...but a "bad" spank is the first time I asked my boyfriend to do it. He was going at me doggystyle and I whispered for him to spank me...I could totally feel the change in his thrusting pace...more erratic...then a hesitation...then a little swat. He was thinking about it way too much. Then I laughed at this big tough guy actually taken by surprise. And because I could tell he was way too focused on it, I just outright fell apart into giggles. It took a few times, and I only just recently got him to pull my hair the right way (ie, not by tugging at a few strands, but going deep and grabbing a handful near my scalp).
     
  22. beautiful disaster

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    getting spanked is the best :clit:
     

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