FRK Spanking, nipple pinching, talking dirty.........

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  1. lebomb

    lebomb New Member

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    ........My EX wife (who was a real biatch) used to get off to all that during sex. Even though I do NOT miss her, I miss some of that action. My wife now, does not enjoy any of the spanking (hates it even though she has a big azz), nipple pinching (says it hurts) and dirty talk (says its a turn off). She does alot of other things that I enjoy, but is just not into anything too physical or any degrading type talk. Oh well, guess everyone is different.

    Anyone else into a new relationship, but miss something in the sex department from a prior relationship????
     
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    imori Phasma En Machina

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    not in my current one, or in my previous. but my first real relationship really lacked in the sex department. as in, we didnt do it..... at all.... for the whole 3 1/2 years..... oh well.
     
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    Lavender Easter is my favorite holiday...

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    My ex was in to the rough stuff, getting tied up and fucked in the ass, etc, but was a total cunt the rest of the time. It just wasn't worth it. My current girlfriend is into some rough stuff, but not anything where I could take my belt off and smack her ass till she cries, where my ex was all over that, I don't know how many times we had sex and she was still crying, but she loved it, so who was I to argue?
    That being said, I love my girlfriend and would not give her up for anything.
     
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    Cherryfire "If we believe obsurdities, we shall commit atroci

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    pixie on one wild ride :naughty:

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    Come on folks, don't you think that's a bit harsh?

    Everyone's got different standards & different turn on's. Hell, one guy I dated wouldn't let me give him a blow job even :eek3: (hope he's outgrown that one). Every new person is going to be "missing" something from the previous relationship because everyone is different :dunno: Some will give things a try, & might even decide they like it :naughty: & some wont :hs: You just have to decide if that's too much a loss to handle. Hopefully since you married her, she's got enough plus's to cover the loss of this part of the Freaky :kiss:
     
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    To be blunt; no. I was going to link him here but decided that there must be some other way.
     
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    pixie on one wild ride :naughty:

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    :dunno: Sex has never been the be-all/end-all of a relationship for me. He married the woman, must have known some of what she would be like at least first. If all you are after is sex, then don't marry the person.
     
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    Yeah Dirty talk, does nothing for me, well depending on the type, degrading, nope, other types welll..... Never been tied up for real, just like a hankercheif around my wrists, enh, didn't do much that way, spanking, ummm, no, turn off.

    Teasing, well...:naughty:
     
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    she has a big ass what more do you need...

    /ends ass fetish rant
     
  13. lebomb

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    .........:bowdown:I worship her ass.

    Like I said, she offers other things I enjoy:naughty:.
     
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    Sounds just like my wife..........she just doesnt get anything from dirty talk or spanking.......she says her boobs ache when I pinch the nips.......Oh well.
     
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    TigreTek omega member OT Supporter

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    how hard are you pinching? why not try some clothespins, they don't put THAT much pressure. try taking it slowly/lightly and work your way up to the intensity that you want it at. you may have to settle for things not as freaky as you'd like, or not as harsh/intense.

    also, try stupid mind tricks like making sure that she REALLY enjoys the sex when there's freakyshiat involved. try to create a subconscious association between freakyshiat and great sex. (ask PE about what happens whenever she goes to IHOP) ;) and the rest will hopefully work itself out.
     
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    Her nips are super sensitive......I dont even have to really pinch hard or suck on em much for her to say OWWWWW!!!!:nono:.........Also, she is kinky in other ways.....like anal and all that, but she just isnt down with rough stuff. I used to paddle my EX till her lil fawt box was all red........:bigthumb:
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    use ur tongue then. it's fun.
    :naughty:
     
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    Last night I kinda sucked her nip.......she was like.........OWWWWWWW!!!:madfawk:
     
  20. xela

    xela So say we all!

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    I don't believe they are so sensitive it hurts even when you suck them lightly....is that possible?? :dunno:
     
  21. lebomb

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    :dunno:
     
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    See my first reply.
     
  23. pixie

    pixie on one wild ride :naughty:

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    Certain days are more sensitive than others :dunno:

    Also, if I'm not turned on enough first the rough stuff can be too rough for my nipples. Maybe work elsewhere first, try to turn her on a little more before moving in? ... however, if she becomes even more sensitive that might not work.

    Keep working on it though, & good luck :kiss:
     
  24. CarterInsomniac1

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    :ugh:

    Does that seem wrong to anyone else? Subconciously forcing her to like teh freaky shtuff?
     
  25. lebomb

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    I agree.
     
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