........My EX wife (who was a real biatch) used to get off to all that during sex. Even though I do NOT miss her, I miss some of that action. My wife now, does not enjoy any of the spanking (hates it even though she has a big azz), nipple pinching (says it hurts) and dirty talk (says its a turn off). She does alot of other things that I enjoy, but is just not into anything too physical or any degrading type talk. Oh well, guess everyone is different. Anyone else into a new relationship, but miss something in the sex department from a prior relationship????