Spanking and controlling

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  1. Suncoast

    Suncoast New Member

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    The woman says to me "I can't wait for you to spank me and control me..."

    Anybody have an good ideas on what I can do to "control" her besides the obvious doing whatever I want to her?? Any kind of sexy pin down moves that you ladies get turned on the most by?
     
  2. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    You'd be better served by posting this in FS...


    For a beginner, Doggy style while pulling her hair and Spanking her ass is always a good point to start. If you like missionary, pin her arms over her head with one hand and pinch the everlivingshit out of her nipples and bite her neck and collarbone area.

    Also, TALK TO HER ABOUT WHAT SHE LIKES BEFORE the act. Sit down, outside the bedroom in Regular, non-sexual sitation and talk about what she likes and what you are willing to do.
     
  3. RedVsBlue

    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    Unless you know her pretty good, id ask for some clarity before you go all out...

    PE is right, this needs to be in FS...
     
  4. PocoDiablo

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    Yeah, FS.

    Have a safe word - "Quit" works for me. If you're choking her, let her know that three slaps means "quit" if she can't talk. :naughty:

    Pulling hair usually works wonders. Anything more than that, just ask her how far you can go. You may be surprised!
     
  5. Yail Bloor

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    I don't have any experience with controlling, but I spank my girl regularly when she deserves it.

    I never spank her out of anger. I give her a few hard smacks on her bare ass when she needs it and it always turns her on and she loves it.

    YMMV
     
  6. NCS

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    go post in FS. the biggest trick is lots of girls will be shy telling you waht they really want in detail, especially with submissive desires like this, since part of the thrill for them is you just doing it. so be a jedi and feel it out
     
  7. RoblesGT

    RoblesGT [Track Days: 19 ][Crashes: 1] [SuMo Days: 1 ][Cras OT Supporter

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    pulling hair, holding arms away ... behing her head .... works good
     
  8. The Mafia

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    lol that made me chuckle.

    You seem sure about when she deserves it. But hey, they always deserve it. :bigthumb:
     

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