sound familiar, guys? V. "Good Guy Contract"

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  1. themolsen

    themolsen New Member

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    http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/happiness-in-world/200911/the-good-guy-contract

    I think this can go along the same lines as White Knight Syndrome, but a little different obviously.

    Either way, it hits home :hs:
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    a.k.a. "people pleasing". Fuck that shit.
     
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    themolsen New Member

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    yea, fuck that shit
     
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    easier said than done sometimes...
     
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    fuck it indeed....and i cringed at the beginning when he described a breaking up with someone you love as a sine wave instead of a sudden amputation. so fucking true...i hate evil women who do that
     
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    :rofl:

    Oh and: Fuck that shit
     
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    ChipOnShoulder New Member

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    Good for that guy for finally pulling his head out of his ass.

    It's sad, but some people never, ever make that realization that no one can be a "nice guy" 100% of the time. Life sucks, a lot of the time, the right choice is to be an asshole.
     
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    I'm lucky I learned this lesson early in my life (around junior year in high school). I witnessed this firsthand through my dad who is a classic example of "the nice guy." Watching the tragic downfall of his business, relationships and happiness have not been easy.

    Being "the nice guy" will just get you trampled on.
     
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    Chanting?
     
  10. themolsen

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    lol I think he's a Buddhist or Japanese or Black or something weird
     

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