So this might be a pretty long, winded story. But I'll try and summarize it as best I can. I'm also not really sure why I'm writing this all out, I guess I need a slap in the face, a reality check. Basically.. dated this girl a few months back, it was great experience. The highs were fantastic, the lows were down right miserable. But we hit it off so well! Eventually though it came to a screeching halt. One day she just end things and cut me off cold turkey. It wasn't only till 2 weeks ago, did we started talking again. Before that we hadn't seen or talked to each other in like 3 months. I come to find out from her, that before we started dating, she had actually just came off a bad breakup with another guy. So, the short version, is that she used me as a rebound. Initially she just told herself, she was just going to date me for fun. But over the course of time.. she started really liking me. Told me, that we have this great connection and how much she cared about me. Problem is... it wasn't on a romantic level. - - - We have this deep and natural affinity with one another. As cliche as it might sounds, she really wants to be good friends. The problem is she doesn't see me in that romantic light. Its like soul mates but without the romantic love, if thats possible. While it completely sucks for me. Because I feel the same way and then some.. I want it to be more. - - - I know. I know. Go out there date 10 other girls, meet other people, pick up a hobby. I guess I just need a place to vent.. sorry if things are unclear or jumbled mess. Ill answer any Q's to clear things up.