before i start getting certain responses i do not mean: skills in bed or of any sexual orientation. do you have a certain attraction to your current/past SO's skills and/or talents? as an example. my gf is a photographer. ive always liked art, dont get me wrong, but never thought to myself "i would love to date an artsy person. that would be hot!". yet when i see my gf's work it sort of turns me on. not the work itself (although most of her work is with local models) but the fact that she's the one that came up w. the concept/took the pics. even as i type this i have a hard time understanding why.