sorry for making ya'll interpret a girl's actions...

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  1. R KriLLz

    R KriLLz Uncomfortable in my own skin.

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    ... but i need help on this one.

    I've known this girl through a friend for years now. we don't hang much, but we get along great when we do.
    she's said that I was "hot" a few times.

    anyway... she tells all her male friends (including myself) constantly about the guys that are interested in her, the guys she is dating, the guys she thinks are hot, etc.

    I'm going to make a move soon regardless. She's moving to europe in a few months. nothing to lose.

    I'm wondering where that behavior comes from though.

    Initially you'd think it's like a way of letting me know im a friend or something.
    but i have a feeling it may come from low self-esteem.

    I dont know, any experiences with girls like this?
    not too sure how to approach her.
    never really dug chicks that date a lot.
    I'm looking to start something hot and serious for the last few months she's here. :x:
     
  2. nukeum999

    nukeum999 New Member

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    Are you looking for something serious?

    If shes moving away then why even bother?
     
  3. R KriLLz

    R KriLLz Uncomfortable in my own skin.

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    ^^I'm going to the army in jan. and want a nice fling.
     
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    R KriLLz Uncomfortable in my own skin.

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    I guess just the way she goes about it. guess you gotta catch the vibe.
    she just seems to be militant about letting other guys know about it.
    and she's alluded to her self worth by the caliber of guys she was dating.

    I'm basically just trying to figure out if shes being a tease to boost herself.
     
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    sassy2424 New Member

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    No that I used to date a lot, but I always told my guy friend who I was dating/had the hots for.. for me it was because i trusted him enough to tell him things?
    I wasn't teasing him at any cost- he was completely in the friendzone.
     
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    chlywly Active Member

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    She likes attention like all women.
     
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    she sounds very insecure.
     
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    Okay,here's the deal. She wants you to say "yeah i agree, you are hot" when she says that everyone else says that she's hot.Yea,she likes the attention shes getting from other guys, but its YOUR attention she wants...so i say go for it and ask her out.
     
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    maybe make you jealous? :p

    or friendzone

    or possibly insecure.

    nothing to lose, go for it lol
     
  10. Bedroomeyes202

    Bedroomeyes202 New Member

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    she wants to feel desirable, and she wants you to be like - damn ive got lots of competition, shes not "waiting around for you" type of thing.... in my opinion anyway:dunno:
     
  11. Schproda

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    Give her attention and see if you can knock it out in the meanwhile. :) From my experience though, if she's talking about other guys it isn't because she wants to be with you.
     

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