Sorry for all the questions, last one..need some advice!

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  1. deznutz

    deznutz New Member

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    Ok so from my previous post, i move fast in my relationships...

    Story: I was talking to this girl, became friends with her .. Over christmas break we hung out almost every weekend (she had school) got to really like her, and asked her if she wanted to be more serious (boyfriend, girlfriend)before leaving back to college and she basically said she needed more time...

    from this period on we have been talking almost every day and she is saying things like "you make my day" and "your amazing" and all these other comments, we have dates already planned for concerts and such.... i am wondering if i should ask her again?????
     
  2. symptic

    symptic I run companies

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    No. Let is just happen. Just keep doing what you're doing and eventually she will either bring up the subject or it will just be assumed. I'm dead set on saying that the more time you allow to develop, the more rewarding and stress-free a relationship is.

    Move too fast, and it'll bite you. Especially from my experience.
     
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    deznutz New Member

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    :bigthumb: I was thinking this also, rather go slower than fast. Wait for the feelings to "bottle up"


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  4. symptic

    symptic I run companies

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    Yep. G'luck with this one. :love:
     
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    afterShock81 If I could only have one food for the rest of my l

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    what they said
     
  6. StuDLei

    StuDLei Death before Dishonor

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    let her know how you feel BUT dont make her rush. ive made that mistake. Let her know but dont make her choose right now if shes not ready. k? good ; )
     
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    cunninglinguist RAEPERQUICKING

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    if you want something more serious and she doesnt, then shes moving too slow.

    stop talking to her for a while and let her call you and tell you whats up;
     
  8. deznutz

    deznutz New Member

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    I feel like i am always the one that calls her and does stuff...but when we talk, we talk so it must mean i am part interesting..but of course, friends do the same thing.
     
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    For once I agree with symptic. :noes:
     
  10. JordanClarkson

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    No you should not ask her. But when you go to that concert, be sure to kiss her. If she's into you she'll respond accordingly. If not, she will pull away, but you can say that you were just caught up in the excitement.
     

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