FRK Sooo... has anyone here ever been to a "swingers club" before?

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  1. infinite.purple

    infinite.purple New Member

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    i got invited to go to an "event" with some friends here: http://www.eros-events.org

    i am fairly open-minded about this sort of thing, but i have no idea what to expect and am somewhat terrified. :o any input is appreciated.
     
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    FairyTat Anticipation, the taste of things to cum

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    Go with an open mind and have fun. Nobody is going to force you to do anything and you'll meet some really interesting folks. It's always an experience.
     
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    This. There are always house rules, and you will never be forced to do ANYTHING you're not comfortable with.
     
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    thanks :)

    i am not sure how to mentally prepare myself for witnessing random strangers having sex all over the place, but we'll seeeeeee
     
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    Just keep an open mind and remember that everyone's there to enjoy themselves, whether it's watching or being watched :naughty: It's not always just sex. Sometimes it's scenes, spanking, whatever- depends on the place.
     
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    BadKat GIVE ME WINE!!

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    I think a mutual friend of ours may have been there, but has definintely been to something similar. You should ask him.
     
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    oh interesting! but if it is who i think you're talking about, i would have no idea how to approach that conversation in a way that wouldn't be... for lack of a better word... creepy
     
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    BadKat GIVE ME WINE!!

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    You think approaching him would be creepy? :mamoru: I mean, I know he gets the Serial Killer-looking comments and all...
     
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    lol he just texted me. thanks :o

    and noooooo! that's not what i meant! it's just funny considering we never talk... for me to be like "SOOOOO I HEAR YOU'VE BEEN TO A SWINGERS CLUB. DETAILS?! :naughty:"
     
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    BadKat GIVE ME WINE!!

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    :rofl: Okay, I see what you mean.
     
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    dumb_end_user Sad Gus

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    In :o

    Let me know if you have any more questions.
     
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    so THAT was awesome :bowdown:
     
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    JoJoBee Hanging out with my chicks! OT Supporter

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    nice details... :mamoru:
     
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    haha i know, right? :o

    i would highly recommend checking this out though...
     
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    dumb_end_user Sad Gus

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    Better than I had prepared you for?
     
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    ya there were a lot of older couples, but there was a sizeable group of us in our 20's and 30's that kind of found each other and had a great time. i had a couple of noteworthy "firsts" and walked away with a really positive feeling! :bigthumb:
     
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    BadKat GIVE ME WINE!!

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    I want details woman!!! I'm very very curious now....
     
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    i'll tell you all about it on friday, if you want to know! :mamoru:
     
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    dumb_end_user Sad Gus

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    That's great. That sounds very encouraging.

    I may have to go back and check it out. :o
     
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    Watch porn (go to tube8.com and type orgy).
     
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    i think it goes without saying that it's a completely different experience when it's in-person and you're interacting with them :rolleyes:
     
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    Please help out others who may be considering this by sharing as much detail as you are comfortable with....
    What the facility looked like, how big of a crowd, special event...that sort of stuff. :)
     
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    well the facility is a spiritual retreat center where people actually live. the couple who runs the events just rents it out twice a month. it's a few secluded buildings out in the woods that are decorated right out of the 70's.

    we showed up right at the beginning and it was already crowded with people trickling in. i'm really bad at estimating crowd size, but i would estimate about 50-60 people were there ranging in age from 21 to probably early 50's, mostly white and mostly couples, but a little bit of everything. some people were super casual with just jeans and t-shirts, some were dressed like they were going out to a nice dinner, and some people were kind of in costume almost - lingerie style clothes, hosiery, etc.

    we checked in at the front and signed a release form and then got beverages/snacks and took a tour before orientation started. the way the place is set up, there's a main social area when you first walk in with a kitchen and living room set up. people are asked to remain clothed in that area and keep loud conversations out there.

    you walk through a door right into the main "voyeur room" which was basically 4 large mattresses in the middle of the floor with a bunch of pillows, and couches and chairs all around. doors off of that room lead to smaller rooms, each with a different set up. two of the small rooms were marked off as private so couples or groups could use them without an audience. another room had a chair/bed thing that was obviously designed specifically for sex. it looked kind of like a gyno exam table, except all padded and comfier looking. every room was equipped with a basket of condoms and stacks of clean linens. they asked that when you were done in a room, you remove any soiled sheets so the next people could replace them.

    down a hallway from the voyeur room was an indoor pool and hot tub area. one side of the pool deck was set up as a dance floor with a stripper pole and a dj. past that area, there were double doors leading outside to a covered smoking area.

    outside there were two separate walkways from the main buildings leading to two other small buildings. one of these was a private area for groups to use (with a 1 hour limit). the other building had a sex swing and a sibian machine with mattresses around the room so others could watch. the sibian machine area had someone supervising/operating it all night. i didn't try it, but it definitely looked intense watching other women on it.

    for orientation, all the new people (it was "new couples" night, so there were a TON of us) crowded in the voyeur room. we sat in a circle and two of the staff did an introduction and ran us through the rules. a lot of them were common sense things, but all designed for everyone's safety and comfort.

    after orientation, the party started pretty much immediately with the regulars getting naked and heading to their favorite areas. all of us newbies sort of hovered around watching and having conversations with people, trying to get to know each other. it was a really warm and welcoming environment. i talked to several married couples who had been attending events and been a part of the lifestyle for years. i even met a younger couple who met each other at one of the parties and had been dating almost a year.

    honestly it was a lot more of a safe, comfortable feeling situation than your typical bar scene. everyone was very respectful and no one was predatory. no one that i saw got too drunk or out of control. everyone had different levels of participation from staying fully clothed and just watching to being in the middle of the scheduled orgy. i participated in as much as i was comfortable with and met a lot of really nice people. i hope to attend again sometime soon! :bigthumb:
     
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    Thank you for the details :kiss:
     
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    sweet details, sounds like a very safe and sane environment
     

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