MIL Soon to be military wife...

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  1. OneHevnleyAngel

    OneHevnleyAngel New Member

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    I know its not easy, being in the military, I assume it will be difficult to be married to it. Anything I can do to make it easier on the fiance?
     
  2. Insdav3

    Insdav3 Guest

    Wait so you're in and he's the civilian?
     
  3. OneHevnleyAngel

    OneHevnleyAngel New Member

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    no he's in i'm civilian
     
  4. spitfire544

    spitfire544 New Member

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    Well things wouldn't get that difficult until he gets deployed.:doh:
     
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    itll be alright




    pics of you? :x:
     
  6. spitfire544

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    In for pics!:bigthumb:
     
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    SeaMack99 OT Supporter

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    follow your heart
     
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    Don't cheat or we'll hunt you down :squintd:
     
  9. OneHevnleyAngel

    OneHevnleyAngel New Member

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    great advice if he asks for pics i'll be set!!!! Myspace fuckers!
     
  10. OneHevnleyAngel

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    BTW i already followed my heart, thats how i ended up with him, and i'm not a cheater.
     
  11. StuDLei

    StuDLei Death before Dishonor

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    A couple things. Ironically the girl who left me 5 days after I got home said these things, but whatever. Anyways.

    Dont forget what is important in life. Dont lose sight of it.
    Love is forgiving, and forgiving, and forgiving. Probably the best one right there.

    Love is selflessness.

    Take care of eachother and good luck.
     
  12. GochuBoy

    GochuBoy OT Supporter

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    :rofl: OMG!

    Don't listen to this guy...

    don't ever go over there. Don't ever even try to meet your hubbys friends...those "friends" are the same friends that'll try to hit on you. Well, generally speaking.
     
  13. Ranger-AO

    Ranger-AO I'm here for the Taliban party. Moderator

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    what he said

    this is the guy your mother warned you about. Coincidentally, this is also the guy your fiance will hack to pieces if he finds out you cheated on him.
     
  14. fintheman

    fintheman I will ebay O/T!

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    LMAO

    Sorry, I don't take marriages in the military seriously

    Get married, go for it, you'll be sorry.

    come back in 2-3 years, you'll agree with me.

    That is all.
     
  15. Ranger-AO

    Ranger-AO I'm here for the Taliban party. Moderator

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    speaking from experience? :ugh:
     
  16. fintheman

    fintheman I will ebay O/T!

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    Come on man, if you are in, you know this to be true.
     
  17. Ranger-AO

    Ranger-AO I'm here for the Taliban party. Moderator

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    I was active duty and also a reservist. I got married while I was active duty. Being in the military didn't negatively affect my marriage.

    Don't be such a tool. She's engaged. Stop pissing on her parade. :squint:
     
  18. evan2

    evan2 Guest

    im ad and married... idk why it doesnt work unless you tried to make a hoe a housewife

    though my first mlitary boss went to honduras for a year and his wife lost a bunch of weight over part of it and i started to see her out around where I live which was a good 30 mins away and she was dressing more like a whore..
    then I would see her at the club like wtf.. dancing on these 20 year olds shes about 35 and ugly imo...

    eventually she broke down and told one of my co workers who of course told my old boss.. you just gotta be a good husband
    of the almost 4 years teh wife and I have been together, only married for a small part of it.. since march
    ive beeen gone 9 months in the middle easy, 6 months and then 3 months plus some small tdys stateside in the mix.. made her drop her life and move to england with me in june

    and things are fine
     
  19. Nixstress

    Nixstress Look at me! I am edgy and stabby! OT Supporter

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    You're assuming she is marrying an NCO...
     
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    Nixstress Look at me! I am edgy and stabby! OT Supporter

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    I've no clue what branch you are entering and what rank your fiance is so this is some general advice.

    You need to be understanding. The military is not a normal 9-5 job. A good portion of the time your fiance will not know when he is coming home in the evenings so you need to be flexible with dinner and what not. If he deploys send him letters and packages so he doesn't feel so far away from home. I have no clue what post you will be at or if you are going to live on or off post. Gossip is rampant and regardless of what you do people are watching and talking always, keep that in mind.
     
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    Well I commend you for even trying it.

    Just do your best to standby him. You will have your tough times. Stay loyal.

    What are you talking about Myspace? You have pics there?
     
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    Meh... advice... dont make friends with people who look like white trash.. because they are...

    If you get stuck by unclean people on a military base.. make them pay half of the pest kills fees.. chances are there will be roaches in your place how many is up to you.. exp in the south..

    Dont talk shit about people because it will get back to you..

    Always love the hubby unless he cheats on you during TDY or deployment.. if he does divorce him dont listen to the bs of "i wont do it again" cause he will...

    If you dont trust him.. dont take the plunge. do not pass go.

    Being married and in the military is not very hard.. its like being married to a business man.. they will change his shifts more times then you could possibly think of in 1 year.. so dont bug him when he is tired unless you have been up 3 days strait with no sleep and are sick ;)

    Gossip is crap so many of these white trash whores (im glad its on on my block) get people kicked out for shit thats not true.. pisses me off.. and for the LOVE OF PETE dress nice your not poor dont dress like it!.. nothing pisses me off more when i see people out and about dressed in miss matched clothes with holes in them or looking like shit.. the only EXCEPTIONS are.. if you are terribly sick and you need medicine from the BX Rx or your at the docs office.. OR if you are in early pregnancy or late pregnancy.

    never join a military wife or wives forum because they are shitty and filled with one sided snot nosed assholes.
     
  23. OneHevnleyAngel

    OneHevnleyAngel New Member

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    wow okay thanks greenpillow. good advice and i appreciate it. i've got the dressing well thing down, and i do trust him that helps. i would leave in an instant if he cheated TDY or not. and OT is the only fourm i've really hung out in since like 2000! thanks again!
     
  24. Nixstress

    Nixstress Look at me! I am edgy and stabby! OT Supporter

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    Military wives forum? Never heard of them.
     
  25. Nixstress

    Nixstress Look at me! I am edgy and stabby! OT Supporter

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    Depending on your husband's rank I'd suggest becoming involved in the company/battalion FRG and doing volunteer work on post if possible.
     

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