Somewhat of a ethical dilema.....

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  1. Nomad

    Nomad Active Member

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    so i've been hanging out with this new girl, we'll call Anna.

    Anna and I have known each other since last year in the fall and have been talked a lot since then. the other night Anna invited me over to her apartment to watch a movie with her friends, which i did. after the movie she and i were hanging out and talking and all. i know for a fact that Anna is definately interested in me, she was giving me all sorts of signs and all, and i was as well.

    now here's my "dilema" i guess you'd call it....

    Anna is really really good looking, laid back and she's sort of a hippie "earth child" but i noticed a sort of funky smell. well i didn't pay much attention to it since they have lots of different plants/flowers in their apartment so i thought it was those. i spent the night and we both slept in the same bed, the next morning i wake up before she does and still notice that funky smell, now there's no plants in her bedroom so i'm like "WTF?" i smell myself because it might be my BO, nope. well the only other person/thing in the room that could make a smell was Anna. and guess what it was. well then we both get up and she gets ready for her class, but i don't hear any shower running. so i'm fairly certain she doesn't take showers regularly.

    anyone have a situation like this? i'm completely baffled as to what to do. she's a cool girl and all, but idk if i'd want to date a girl that doesn't take regular showers. :hs:
     
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    does she shave?
     
  3. Nomad

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    as far as i can tell...yes

    edit - haven't gotten down south yet, but legs/armpits are shaved
     
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  4. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    maybe she just does not shower every morning! and about the smell, I think if it were her, you could easily say it was her. I mean Can't you really distinguish between the bad smell of a person or plants?! I sure as hell know I can!
     
  5. Nomad

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    i've been getting over a cold lately so my head/nose are all messed up

    as far as not showering in the morning, i guess that is a possibility
     
  6. jdm-cd5

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    i think she was too high to remember to shower.
     
  7. Nomad

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    we didn't smoke, nor drink
     
  8. jdm-cd5

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    that's surprising...looks like she's just a dirty chick. Did you make a move when you were sleeping in the same bed? Could of gotten an easy lay out of the smelly situation..
     
  9. Nomad

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    yeah, she said not then though since her roommate was also in the room.
     
  10. teep

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    i don't see what ethics has to do with any of this, but smelly chick... out!
     
  11. Nomad

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    well like i like her, but telling her i won't hang/whatever with her her because of it is kind of a douche thing to do, and i don't try to be a douche
     
  12. Kappa00

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    She might need a douche.
     
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    :rofl:

    If she smells funky, and you don't like it... I don't see this making you a douche. And who really wants to hang out with someone who stinks? I'd be turned off too... but you should make sure it's her before you make a decision. Hang out with her again and see? :dunno:
     
  14. Falconer

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    I think you've answered your own question.

    Hippies think deodorant cause cancer or something and so they don't use it.




    srsly tho it could just be her perfume.

    Or her natural smell. I've met girls before who were super hot but their scent wasn't compatible with my nose so I knew nothing could ever happen between us.

    Scent is an incredibly strong (and often subconscious) attractor.
     
  15. Nomad

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    yeah, i doubt she wears perfume. i guess i'll have to let this one go.
     
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    This is true. I have known a few guys that just smell off and you have said that she smells funny, not necessarily a BAD smell.

    And I know that a lot of girls only wash their hair like once or twice a week, that could be a factor.
     
  17. jdm-cd5

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    why date her? just fuck her dude. I have no problem fucking a smelly, hot chick.
     
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    had this happen once. she was clean person, but her natural scent was just bad enough that as soon as she left i would actually change the sheets and then go back to bed.that sure didnt last
     
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    Dude... this is creepy. I had a friend back home (NM) who really was named Anna and she was definitely hippie like/earth child. Pretty sure she showered though.
     
  20. Nomad

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    :eek3:
     
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    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Douche

    A douche is a device used to introduce a stream of water into the body for medical or hygienic reasons, or the stream of water itself.
    Douche usually refers to vaginal irrigation, the rinsing of the vagina, but it can also refer to the rinsing of any body cavity. A douche bag is a piece of equipment for douching - a bag for holding the fluid used in douching. To avoid transferring intestinal bacteria into the vagina, the same bag must not be used for a vaginal douche and an enema.
     
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    i could not handle it.
     
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    ... yes? :confused:
     
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    meet up with her in a neutral situation and see if she still stinks. then you can know whether it's actually her or just her room.

    edit: also, how is this an ethical dilemma at all :rofl:
     

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