So back about a week before valentines day I met this girl who at the time was single. We started seeing eachother, not like boyfriend/girlfriend just ey lets hang out or whatever. Valentines day roles around I got her a pink rose... wasnt sure if I wanted to do red yet... but that night some other guy who she met when she was drunk asked if she would be his girlfriend. She was wierded out and said she didnt know. Later she finds out he was kissing some other girl, he askes her out again, she said ok this time, apparently he is pretty sexy... She tells all her friends that she doesnt see it working out, even told me that. So she tells me that she wants to finish him "cleanly" before she moves on to dating me. Day later, she sleeps over with me and we get pretty serious... If somoene asked her, she would say she is dating the other guy though. She never sees the other guy but maybe an hour a week, and sees me about an hour or more a day. We are going to Cancun over spring break, and she has expressed lots of interests in having lots of sex... To the best of my knowladge she will still be "dating" the other guy Question: you think shes serious when she says she really wants to date me or just a quick weekend lay? how serious should I get about this one?