Ok so my only boyfriend, up until this point, and I do not speak. He refuses to speak to me even. This bothers me because I spent 2 years of my life with him, gave him my virginity, he was my first love, and I still care about him and he obviously doesn't care about me. So his behaviour now leads me to question his feelings then. How could he haved loved me or cared about me they way he said he did then if he acts this way now? So this being said, I have a new boyfriend, and really this is where my problem is. The lead up is just to give you perspective on why I have a couple insecurities on relationships now. ANYWAY...My new boyfriend. I like him very much and he has told me he likes me very much, but he just does not seem to show it AT ALL. He does not call me ever, just to talk or really for any reason, he never initiates any kind of sex or foreplay, I don't think if I kissed him he would kiss me, and we're far enough along in the relationship that "I love you" is not that weird, and I told him that I loved him because I do, and he says it back, but never once has he just said it. I really don't understand, because He still looks at me with affection and he holds my hand and hugs me and shows little signs that way, but other than that he seems completely indifferent. So I'm freaked that he may not actually like me or care about me the way I think he does or he says he does (much like how I question boyfriend #1's feelings now). So am I making something out of nothing?