something my gf said bothers me.

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  1. imori

    imori Phasma En Machina

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    she said that she was getting bored with me. :noes:

    she took it back since then and we've talked about it, but things still just feel weird since it was said.

    I dont know if Im looking for advice or just want to get this out.
     
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    how old are you guys, and how long have you been together. hows the relationship otherwise?
     
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    imori Phasma En Machina

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    Im 24, shes 21. been together for a year and a half. The relationship otherwise is good. We talk and everything. the only problem is lately because if my and her schedules we havent been able to spend a whole lot of time together and since that comment, I feel weird when im around her now. I still love her and want to be with her, but things are... different now.
     
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    only boring people get bored.
     
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    previous statement is so true...

    i dont allow myself to get bored, and my girlfriend shouldnt either.. what i cant stand is when they say "i dunno" ... it gets so old so quick..
     
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    imori Phasma En Machina

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    you know something? she does that all the fucking time. Her level of apathy is the one thing that I wish I could change about her.
     
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    you want to save it? go on a vacation together. road trip, something. anything to get you two out of the daily grind.

    worked for me when my gf was bitchin about our relationship being "boring".
     
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    imori Phasma En Machina

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    going on a cruise to Caza Mel this august actually.
     
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    then you will be saved.


    pray tonight my friend. pray.
     
  10. Two toys

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    it ultimately caused the ending of one of my favorite relationships.. the girl was awesome but she was a vegetarian and always said I dunno..

    we went to dinner and she'd always get a ceasar salad .. no matter if it was a 10 dollar meal or a 200 dollar meal on a cruise.. she was too predictable for me.. we stopped talking and strangely enough started back talking again a few days ago.. and you know what.. after a year she still doesnt know.. it would be simple stuff to like.. where do you want to go.. or what movie do you want to see.. i got tired of making all the choices.. it was so bad even when it came to sex she still didnt know lol...
     
  11. MeAmEddie

    MeAmEddie My car goes Whooosh psst

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    my SO says that when she wants to go out :o

    sometimes I give her a hard time about it, but then sometimes it pisses me off
     
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    depends, do you guy go out every so often? if you do, she doesn't have much of a right to complain (unless you go to the Winchester every night)

    i've got the same problem right now, i just get stuck in a rut of things i like to do with my girl. and she told me we sit around and watch tv alot. so this saturday we're gonna go out and i have a few ideas in mind =)
     

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