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  1. EliteBC

    EliteBC New Member

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    I'm a straight male. I've been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years now. When we first met I found out that she was bi...or so she thought. She used percentages to give me an example of how bi she was, and it came out as somewhere between 80-85% straight and 15-20% bi/lesbian. She gets turned on by a lesbian porn a hell of a lot more than porn with guys. She admitts that girls make her horny sometimes, and she finds herself checking them out. Over the past 5-6 months though she's been saying that she doesn't even think she's bi, but she still gets turned on by girls sometimes. She likes guys A LOT more, obviously...but I dunno what to make of this. She's never done anything with a girl, but says that there's a slim chance that she might (she doesn't know how far she'd go) someday do something with a girl, with my permission. Then again, there are the times when she says she doesn't even think she's bi. Another thing, she said she thought she was bi 2-3 years before we met.

    What I'm asking is, is she bi, how bi do you think she is, and why does she keep giving me different stories? Is she still undecided? Trying to tell herself she's not bi, but giving in at other times and admitting it? The girl has me confused.

    Another little note: We're in it for the long term, whether she's bi or not. I've never cared about things like that. I would never date a girl that liked girls just as much as guys, though, or even somewhat close to that. I don't know why, it's just my thing. She's pregnant with our first baby (less than 4 months to go! and they think it's a boy) and we plan to marry soon. But, back to the question at hand. ^^^^^^^^^^^
     
  2. camarosrool

    camarosrool yes i am

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    lol
    i happen to have a lil gay magic 8 ball here
    lets see what it says!
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    doesnt get much clearer than that!!
     
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    :mamoru::mamoru:
     
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    My question to you is. Why haven't you been the typical man and asked her to have a three way with you and another girl? You have a small dick or something? Afraid you'll lose her?
     
  5. audrey

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    Hi I'm 26. I broke up from a long term relationship with a man about a year and a half ago and I have only been dating women since. I *thought* I was bi for years without even having slept with a woman. I'm still attracted to men but i haven't slept with one since I ex boyfriend.

    But that doesn't mean I'll know what label you want your girlfriend to wear. I think people are attracted to people. It doesn't have to be so complicated. Right now I prefer having sex with women, but I might end up married to a man. :dunno:
     
  6. Matitulo

    Matitulo If sexy never left then why is everybody on my shi

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    Why does it matter how bi she is? If she likes men, which she hasn't stated that she doesn't, then you really don't have anything to worry about. She's obviously happy enough with you to carry your child.
     
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  8. EliteBC

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    It doesn't really matter. I'm just confused as to what she's trying to tell me.
     

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